A situationship can sneak up on you without you realizing it.

There is a good chance that you didn’t start this situationship thinking that this was what you wanted.

When you first met him, you thought he was an attractive guy who intrigued and excited you.

To this end, you wanted to engage with him, learn about him, get sexual with him, and see where things went.

Lo and behold, in having this experience with him soon after meeting him, you realized that you wanted more of it.

What you thought would be a period of exploration turned into a situationship in no time.

It snuck up on you.

Next thing you knew, you were hanging out with him on weekends and canceling plans with your girlfriends.

The more time you spent with him, the more intrigued by him you became.

All of a sudden, you found yourself thinking about him throughout your day, wondering what he was doing and whether he was thinking of you.

You started telling friends about him, asking them about what they thought about the prospect of the situationship becoming something more.

Some friends gave you hope that something more could come out of this, and others were more pessimistic.

Regardless, as long as he was available, you continued shifting or adjusting your schedule and plans so as to be with him.

The truth is, you already know you have feelings for him, and you are possibly in love.

This wasn’t what you were banking on.

Until you met him, you had struggled with meeting men who piqued your interest.

So many guys vied for your heart, but you never really cared all that much for them.

You went on a few dates with them, but there was no chance that anything would come of those dates.

These men wanted more, and you didn’t.

Suddenly, out of nowhere, you met this guy.

Everything, from his looks to his personality, completely correlated with what you were looking for in a guy.

Nevertheless, you didn’t instantly assume that he would be a perfect match.

If anything, you wanted to find something about him you didn’t like so that you could write him off, just as you had the myriad of guys who had shown an interest in you before him.

However, the first meeting was interesting enough for you to want to see him again.

Before you knew it, you had spent far more time with him than you initially anticipated you would, whether it was on dates or at his or your place.

The sex was incredible.

The conversations were absolutely engrossing, lasting for hours, whether it was by phone or in person.

The fact that you have since developed feelings for him is without question.

Innately, you have been longing to hear him tell you that he has also developed feelings for you too.

Instead, he talks about dating but doesn’t mention you.

Sadly, this is often what happens in situationships.

A guy who gets into a situationship over a sustained period of time rarely ever sees the woman as someone he would want to be in a committed long-term relationship with.

This guy has already put you in a category of someone he sleeps with and goes out on fun dates with without any pressure or expectations.

He has gotten so comfortable with you that he didn’t think anything of it in talking to you about dating.

Since you are a woman and he has such a personal relationship with you, he wanted to get your thoughts about dating.

More than likely, there is already a woman at his workplace, gym, on his social media, or a dating app that he has his eyes on, and he wants to get some dating advice from you so as to figure out whether she is into him too.