The reason why you want to reach out to him on his birthday is based on your desire that he come around.
Ever since he kindly rejected you over text, you have felt a loss.
You still like him.
The early conversations and dates you had with him were really compelling, leaving you feeling a strong romantic connection with him.
The texts you were receiving from him prior to the first date were all a buildup.
Those texts were leading to the first date.
As a result, they were frenzied, given how much romantic chemistry was being established with each text conversation.
Now that the first date has happened, and it was amazing, lasting as long as 7 hours, there is a natural cooling off period that comes with that.
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The imagination can be very easily stimulated while texting someone you are attracted to.
Since the communication is over text, your mind expands on what you are reading.
A simple phrase could be interpreted as much more than what it was intended to mean.
Receiving the smallest compliment, such as one complimenting a new hairstyle, is quickly interpreted as a strong sign of romantic interest on his part.
Everything that went through his mind the moment he saw you was electric.
In his mind, you were the definitive exterior of what he finds attractive.
You were his type in physique.
Immediately, his mind went to his past experiences dating women with your physical appearance.
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This is a guy who already knows you like him, and this knowledge boosts his ego and sense of self-worth.
His ego and sense of self-worth are further boosted whenever he texts you and you respond positively.
Whenever you are laughing and reacting to the humorous texts and memes he sends you, it gives him an emotional high.
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