A guy who has made you feel like he hates you so much when you don’t believe you have done anything to warrant this behavior, is normally a guy who is using you to assuage a separate issue he is grappling with in his own life.
You haven’t said or done anything egregiously bad to him.
Yet, he doesn’t waste a moment to say something mean to you or about you.
Chemistry is something that many people misunderstand when it comes to dating.
Many think that it has a lot to do with conversation and body chemistry and this is very true.
There is something they leave out when they solely focus on these two elements.
Deep stares are visceral.
One minute you are aware of where you are, the next minute, you are lost in his gaze.
Sometimes, the moment is so powerful, it feels like time itself has stopped or slowed down profoundly.
It’s all about chemistry.
Putting a time constraint on hand holding only makes you that much more anxious throughout your dates.
Should we do it now?
Focus on working on your confidence and not on your desirability.
If you don’t feel desirable and focus on the belief that you are unattractive, it is a lot harder to work on your confidence.
You need to let go of your desire to be desirable.
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