Guys are drawn to what they see physically.

It is primarily a woman’s physical beauty that grabs a guy’s attention.

At the time, he doesn’t know that you are a divorced mom.

All he really cares about is how truly beautiful you are.

This is what inspires him to open a conversation with you and flirt.

As he talks to you, he gets a read on whether there is romantic chemistry, sexual chemistry, or both.

If there is romantic chemistry and sexual chemistry, he is thinking that you are someone he would want to court and date.

Nonetheless, when he learns you are a divorced mom, his mindset has a high likelihood of changing.

This is where he goes from considering you as someone he would want to seriously court, based on the romantic and sexual chemistry he shared with you during the conversation, to considering you as only someone he would want to sleep with.

This change of mind was severely influenced by learning that you are a divorced mom.

This means that not only have you been in a marriage that failed, you also have children in tow.

If he is a young and attractive man in his twenties or thirties who has never been married or had children, he would be that much more reluctant to date you.

This caliber of men would much prefer dating a woman who has never been married and has no children, as this saves them from the added responsibility of having to contend with an angry ex-spouse or children that aren’t theirs.

Given his age bracket, there remain a significant number of women who are age-equivalent and have never been married or had children.

These would be the women he would much prefer to date, as they can both experience marriage and children for the first time with each other.

Even if you have the most amazing children and a wonderful ex-spouse, he wouldn’t want to contend with any of it when he knows that there are a plethora of women in their twenties and some in their thirties who don’t come with an ex-spouse or children.

Since you are a truly beautiful woman, he is physically attracted to you and is open to hooking up with you after taking you on a date or two.

But he doesn’t see you as someone he wants to court and pursue over a sustained period of time.

Unfortunately, given that he is an attractive guy in the prime of his life and desired by other women who have never been married or have children, he has the luxury of being picky about who he decides to date seriously.

A divorced mom comes with baggage he doesn’t have to contend with, given his dating options.

On the other hand, there are guys who would have no qualms with dating a divorced mom.

Oftentimes, these are guys who have already been married and divorced with kids of their own.

Although a minority of these men are in their twenties, the majority of them are in their late thirties and early forties, as this is the age range that most men experience their first divorce.

These are guys who can easily relate to what you have been through and go through on a daily basis as a divorcee and a single parent.