Amongst your peers, there is a familiarity that can sometimes feel too predictable.
Activities you do with them are expected and commonplace.
All of this is serviceable but remains predictable and deficient.
In your dating experience with younger men in your peer group, this predictability and deficiency is what you have become accustomed to.
The spaces you put yourself in are filled with younger men.
Even though you are in your thirties, you continue to put yourself in the same spaces you did when you were in your twenties.
Are you religiously going to nightclubs to socialize just as you did when you were in your twenties?
Nightclubs are havens for younger men who are often in their twenties.
At this stage in your life, you have had successes in education, career, life goals, etc.
These were all accomplished through hard work and perseverance.
Thanks to this, you have gotten to enjoy the fruits of your labor in your late 20s.
The hesitation you are having over the prospect of dating a younger man is warranted.
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Innately, your mind is already pushing back against the idea of dating a younger guy who’s still figuring out his career and life.
The underlying issue for this is tied to your instinctive nature.
You are already at a stage in life where you are doing well in your career and have a direction in life.
This means that you will have a natural inclination to gravitate towards a man who is either doing as well as you are in his career and life or better.
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Knowing he is a 30-year-old with life experience and wisdom is something that impresses you.
Compared to the men your age or younger, he seems to have a lot of class and knowledge.
It feels as though a life with him would teach you a lot and enlighten you in a number of ways.
The guys your age or younger never give you a sense of wonder or intrigue.
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