A guy who isn’t rushing the talking and dating stage just to get to a point where he sleeps with you is a green flag.
There is a genuine desire within him to get to know you better as a person, not your body.
The conversations you have with him on dates and in between dates are filled with well-thought-out questions about you.
The answers you give him don’t fall on deaf ears either.
Everyone is naturally wired to go at a pace they are accustomed to during courtship.
As far as he is concerned, he has learned enough about you to want to date you.
As long as he has already taken you out on several dates and engaged in several conversations with you, he is aware that you already check a lot of the boxes he wants in a potential mate.
It usually takes roughly 1-3 months for people who are actively courting each other to get into a full-fledged relationship.
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The men you have been dating aren’t the kind of men that genuinely excite you emotionally and create a poignant spark.
On paper, they look good.
They are physically attractive, have a good education and career, make good money, come from reputable families, have life goals, etc.
As a result, you are compelled to go out on a date with such a man.
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Chivalrous guys still exist when it comes to dating, but some due diligence is required to find them.
They are primarily found in the smaller towns and cities.
This is where there is way less of a population in comparison to those who live in the bigger cities.
Smaller towns and cities allow for guys who are more old-fashioned in their approach to dating.
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There were text message exchanges you didn’t like seeing when you went through his phone.
These were between him and other girls, lots of other girls.
You didn’t know that he was simultaneously talking to this many girls alongside talking to you.
In hindsight, you were naïve enough to believe that you were the only girl he was talking to and courting.