Category Archives: Courtship

This Girl And I Have A Lot In Common. Should I Pursue A Relationship With Her?

This Girl And I Have A Lot In Common. Should I Pursue A Relationship With Her?Having a lot in common with a girl is a good foundation.

It makes it easier to connect with her on a number of levels, and reduces the chances of having deep-rooted disagreements that hurt romantic compatibility.

This being said, you shouldn’t be too fast to pursue a relationship with her.

Sometimes, people are disingenuous in the early stages of dating.

This is when she is pretending to have a lot in common with you, so as to get you to like her.

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Should You Still Date Someone That Has A Horrendous Tattoo On His Body?

Should You Still Date Someone That Has A Horrendous Tattoo On His Body?That horrendous tattoo is present on his body every time you are with him physically.

It’s located somewhere on his body that can be covered by clothing.

But, you still get to see it when you are sleeping with him.

Since you already think that it is a horrendous tattoo, you are reminded of it whenever you see him naked.

That moment is sure to cause an irritation in you.

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Is It Weird To Enjoy Dating A Woman Who Only Wants To Talk About Herself?

Is It Weird To Enjoy Dating A Woman Who Only Wants To Talk About Herself?It isn’t weird to enjoy this, and there is a specific reason why.

A woman who only wants to talk about herself, saves you from having to come up with new topics of discussion.

When she is the one who is doing all of the talking, it absolves you from having to keep a conversation going.

She is doing all of the work.

Traditionally, as a man, the burden of performance to keep a conversation going is on you whenever you take girls out and court them.

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When You Meet A Beautiful Woman, When Would Be The Right Time To Kiss Her?

When You Meet A Beautiful Woman, When Would Be The Right Time To Kiss Her?Even though you want more than anything to kiss her, don’t get ahead of yourself.

In getting ahead of yourself, you ruin a courtship that was promising.

As long as she is responding to your phone calls, text messages, and going out on dates with you, she is facilitating the courtship.

Try not to get lost in how beautiful of a woman she is.

She knows she is beautiful.

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A Guy Was Super Into Me, But Now, He’s Pulling Away From Me

A Guy Was Super Into Me, But Now, He's Pulling Away From MeHe was intrigued by you, and this stirred an excitement within him that was deeply intoxicating.

You were like a book that he was reading, turning each page with curiosity.

This was enthralling, keeping him on the edge of his seat.

That being said, he reached a page that gave him pause, making him uncomfortable.

Once this occurred, it was harder for him to keep turning the pages.

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Would You Date Someone Whose Place Of Residence Is A Pigsty?

Would You Date Someone Whose Place Of Residence Is A Pigsty?Like attracts like.

A person that has a pigsty for a home won’t mind dating someone else who has the same.

If anything, this has an effect of connecting the two, making them feel that they can be themselves.

There is no burden of performance to keep their places clean.

They each live in a pigsty, which relieves the pressure on either party to pretend that they are clean.

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Is It Wrong To Still Want To Be With A Woman Who Isn’t Very Smart?

Is It Wrong To Still Want To Be With A Woman Who Isn't Very Smart?There is nothing inherently wrong with this.

Although she isn’t very smart, there are alternate qualities about her that you appreciate.

She doesn’t have the intellect to have a deeply intellectual conversation with you, but you don’t care about that.

While for many, intellectual conversation is an important factor in attraction, that has no bearing on what you like in this woman.

The initial hesitation you feel about wanting to be with a woman who isn’t very smart is in how you are judged by people.

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Do You Consider It A Deal Breaker If Your Date Has Friends Of The Opposite Sex?

Do You Consider It A Deal Breaker If Your Date Has Friends Of The Opposite Sex?A date that has friends of the opposite sex is fraught with peril.

Your first instinct is to be weary that your date has so many names of members of the opposite sex on her phone.

Even worse when you see that she has more male friends on her social media than female friends.

The thing is, there is good reason to consider making it a deal breaker if a date has friends of the opposite sex.

It’s not that she is consciously intent on sleeping with these men.

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Anytime I Meet Any Man I Find Even A Bit Interesting, I Let Him Take Over My Entire Life. What’s Wrong With Me?

Anytime I Meet Any Man I Find Even A Bit Interesting, I Let Him Take Over My Entire Life. What's Wrong With Me?He takes over your entire life by filling a void within you.

Unfortunately, you don’t value yourself or your life all that much.

You are bored with yourself and your life.

You want someone to come into it so that there is a spark of life.

When any man who is a bit interesting is suddenly a candidate for dating, you are showing that you are desperate to be awakened from the monotony of your life.

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I Have Big Career Goals And Want To Focus On My Career. Do I Have To Give Up On Dating, Marrying, And Creating A Family?

I Have Big Career Goals And Want To Focus On My Career. Do I Have To Give Up On Dating, Marrying, And Creating A Family?Having big career goals is a plus, given the financial rewards.

And yes, focusing on your career to get yourself up that corporate ladder is prudent.

But, there is no reason for you to give up on dating, marrying and creating a family for the sake of achieving your big career goals.

Lots of people achieve career success and get to date, marry and create families in tandem.

It’s about how you balance your time.

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I Think I Have Found The Perfect Guy, And I Don’t Want To Ruin It By Coming On Too Strong Or Being Weird In Any Way

I Think I Have Found The Perfect Guy, And I Don't Want To Ruin It By Coming On Too Strong Or Being Weird In Any WayAlthough you think you have found the perfect guy, it is far too early to get caught up on what could be.

Realistically, you don’t know this guy well enough to determine whether he is the right guy for you.

I know you are excited right now.

It makes sense.

It’s been a while since you have met a guy like this, and you are beside yourself with excitement.

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Would You Pursue A Girl In A Committed Relationship Who Is Showing An Interest In You?

Would You Pursue A Girl In A Committed Relationship Who Is Showing An Interest In You?Pursuing a girl in a committed relationship comes with complications.

Although you are attracted to this girl, don’t get carried away.

Even though you believe that she is showing signs of attraction towards you, this isn’t a greenlight to pursue her.

A girl in a committed relationship who has shown signs of interest in you is doing so because there is something missing in her relationship.

Her boyfriend isn’t giving her the attention she deserves.

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When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To Date

When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To DateIt’s a quandary that has given you sleepless nights.

There are two females in your life that you are attracted to and getting along with.

They are amazing and you love being around them.

Every time you are hanging out with any one of them, you have a great time and don’t want it to end.

Yet, you know that you can’t date both of them, even though the thought has crossed your mind.

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