Having a conversation with someone about your red flags before dating them is not optional; it’s compulsory.

This is a discussion that so many failed couples never have, as they are too caught up in the emotions they feel for each other.

The feel-good hormone, dopamine, is so high at these early stages, these couples don’t think to have a real conversation about their red flags.

All they want to do is keep living in the euphoria that they are experiencing with each other.

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When looking for a serious relationship, giving it at least three dates over three or more weeks before hanging out alone with him is sufficient.

A guy who chooses to take you out on that many dates while consistently communicating with you in-between said dates is demonstrating serious intent.

He is taking the time to plan these dates out and is paying for them.

In-between these dates he is initiating conversations with you through text messages and phone calls, asking relevant questions that pertain to your life, interests, goals, and background.

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A guy who isn’t rushing the talking and dating stage just to get to a point where he sleeps with you is a green flag.

There is a genuine desire within him to get to know you better as a person, not your body.

The conversations you have with him on dates and in between dates are filled with well-thought-out questions about you.

The answers you give him don’t fall on deaf ears either.

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Everyone is naturally wired to go at a pace they are accustomed to during courtship.

As far as he is concerned, he has learned enough about you to want to date you.

As long as he has already taken you out on several dates and engaged in several conversations with you, he is aware that you already check a lot of the boxes he wants in a potential mate.

It usually takes roughly 1-3 months for people who are actively courting each other to get into a full-fledged relationship.

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The men you have been dating aren’t the kind of men that genuinely excite you emotionally and create a poignant spark.

On paper, they look good.

They are physically attractive, have a good education and career, make good money, come from reputable families, have life goals, etc.

As a result, you are compelled to go out on a date with such a man.

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