Since you aren’t in love with your best friend, you have to make it clear to him that you aren’t.
You love him as your best friend and nothing more.
He has to comprehend that your love for him is platonic in nature.
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Yes, guys genuinely want to fall in love.
It isn’t something they quest after too early.
They don’t have a romanticized viewpoint about falling in love.
People experience being in love in various forms.
Some are incredibly excited about the person and can’t stop thinking and talking about them.
Some feel a rush of inexplicable energy whenever they are around the person as though they were just injected with a large dose of adrenaline.
Once the initial stage of having butterflies has passed, the sense of being in love transitions into one of emotional satisfaction, security and contentment.
Sometimes, this is a confusing stage.
When you are no longer feeling your heart pound every time he tells you he loves you or every time he sends you a message, it feels like something has changed.
At this point, it feels like you have been on earth for just as long as the earth has existed and have done so without love.
Wherever there appeared to be something like love in relationships you have had in the past, it never lasted.
In fact, those brief moments where you thought you had found love have left you feeling that what you experienced wasn’t love at all.
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