Category Archives: Rejection

He Kindly Rejected Me Over Text a Short While Ago, but His Birthday Is Coming Up—Should I Reach Out?

The reason why you want to reach out to him on his birthday is based on your desire that he come around.

Ever since he kindly rejected you over text, you have felt a loss.

You still like him.

The early conversations and dates you had with him were really compelling, leaving you feeling a strong romantic connection with him.

There have been moments where you have noticed her stealing looks at you.

Whenever this happens, it results in her quickly looking away whenever she notices you about to look in her direction.

These moments embolden you, further convincing you to take the next step in approaching her and opening a conversation.

Finally, you stop waiting for the right moment to do it and just go for it.

There isn’t all that much that instantly makes a guy lose interest in an attractive girl.

Guys are visually stimulated by what they see.

A woman’s attractiveness is the primary factor he uses in deciding whether he wants to make a move on her or not.

To this end, he has a high tolerance level.

There are men who are insecure with fragile egos who read too much into rejection.

When you reject him, it rocks his belief in his identity.

It takes him to places in his head that he doesn’t like.

He immediately goes to the thought that you are indicating that he isn’t worth your time, admiration, and romantic interest.

A fun night together comes at a price.

He knows that you are now filled with expectations.

Expectations he doesn’t have the capacity to meet.

By blocking you, it keeps him from having to deal with the expectations he believes you now have.