You may expect too much if you are using every other relationship that you have observed around you as your example.
This is the problem that some girls face when they want to find a boyfriend.
Due to the fact that they haven’t had much or any experience with having a boyfriend in their lives, they look to the relationships that they have seen in media, the public, their families or their friends for guidance.
You may feel this overwhelming desire to help these guys overcome their insecurity.
There may be a part of you that can sense their insecurity.
You may want them to understand that they don’t have to be insecure with you.
You believe that you are different and that you are someone that they should feel comfortable trusting.
It really depends on the outlook that you have on life.
If you are always unhappy about never having been in a relationship and you act accordingly, it could certainly put people off.
When you act as though you are always unhappy or insecure about something, people can sense that.
People can feel your energy and they will feed off it.
If your energy makes them feel as though you would only bring them down with you, they will want to avoid you.
Continue reading 24 And Never Been In A Relationship. Would That Put You Off?
There are many guys who are interested in women who share the same interests as they do.
These are interests that can be very eclectic in nature. Even interests that aren’t necessarily the most obvious interests that a woman would like.
Hence, for a guy, finding a woman who may have an interest in something that he has an interest in that is not typically the norm of what most women would like can be very intriguing to him.
Continue reading What Makes A Woman Interesting To A Guy Beyond Just Her Looks?
It’s that type of attitude that may be making people not want you.
When all you can think about is this question, you will most likely go about your daily life upset or with a negative countenance.
Hence, your body language alone on a daily basis could be hampering you from getting people to want you.
Most men would rather date a woman who is physically fit just as most women would rather date a man who is physically fit.
As human beings, we are initially drawn to what we see before we actually start wondering about what kind of person the object of our attraction may be.
This is how we tend to approach attraction and dating.
Continue reading Why Is Weight A Factor In Attractiveness With Men?
A change of seasons can make a lot of people feel more attractive.
It is not only about how their physical appearance may change with the season but also how they change mentally.
A person may love a season so much that their entire mindset changes as well as how they look at the world.
Sometimes, your location can be a detriment to finding the right kind of man for you.
Indeed, there may be good men in your location.
They may simply not be the right kind of good man for you.
This is often the case when you live in a smaller town, island or village.
There are only so many people to go around.
Locations this small will often have people who have very similar views, behaviors and propensities.
Continue reading Is It Really My Location That Is The Reason Why I Never Found A Good Man?
Guys like girls who are in good physical shape.
There is a limit to how far most guys will go.
If you lift weights and you are well-toned, a guy can actually be attracted to this.
However, if you lift weights and you are very muscular, most guys may be intimidated or even turned off by this.
Some guys are into girls who have confidence and a great personality.
In fact, a great personality is typically what keeps a guy interested in a girl and makes him willing to stick it out with her.
In essence, her beauty may attract him at first but it is her personality that keeps him for the long run.
Now, if you are not great looking, you are casting a major judgment on yourself that may not be warranted.
Guys don’t all look for the same kind of look in a girl.