Since you are attractive too, which means you have a pretty face and a physically fit body, you fall right in line with what attractive guys would want to date.
After all, guys are stimulated by what they see, and an attractive woman certainly falls in line with what he would want to see and date.
Nevertheless, you are being too presumptive of attractive guys.
Given that you are used to guys you don’t deem attractive showing an interest in you, you are expecting the same kind of behavior from attractive guys.
What matters most is who aligns with all the critical factors required for a long-term relationship to work.
These are critical factors such as her professional, socio-economic, religious, educational, and cultural bona fides.
Since men are highly stimulated by what they see, they often make the mistake of picking the pretty girl based on her physical looks.
In doing this, he has ignored that she doesn’t align with him across multiple critical factors but rather is caught up on how she resembles a supermodel.
As long as he knows that the girl is of virtue, he is more so concerned that the girl is naively thinking that she has guy friends who are genuinely interested in a platonic relationship with her when their genuine motivation is to sleep with her.
A guy knows how other guys think.
He knows that guys have a tendency to befriend girls they want to sleep with.
The reality is that if you were to offer any one of your single guy friends a hookup encounter with you, none of them would hesitate to take you up on your offer.
Growing up in a household where there was anger and toxic behavior often shown by someone older or in authority, such as a parent, has molded who you have become as a person.
Since you were surrounded by all of this anger and toxic behavior while growing up, you became accustomed to it.
Anger and toxic behavior are familiar to you.
As a result, as an adult, you unconsciously attract men who have the same anger issues and toxic behavior you witnessed from authority figures you grew up around.
