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Should I Start Being Short With Him Or Just Keep Telling Him What Bothers Me When It Happens?

Should I Start Being Short With Him Or Just Keep Telling Him What Bothers Me When It Happens?Being short with him is never a solution.

All that does is make him defensive or force him to ignore what you are complaining about altogether.

I know that you get frustrated with him when something bothers you and he never seems to be receptive nor aware of it.

It’s like you are in a relationship with yourself.

He doesn’t seem to have the perception that you do when something goes wrong and you are hoping that he detects it.

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Do Women Find Guys With A Small Pot Belly Attractive In Regards To Dating?

Do Women Find Guys With A Small Pot Belly Attractive In Regards To Dating?The good news is that women aren’t as stuck on a small pot belly on a guy as you are worrying about.

Although six pack abs on a guy has seemingly become the rage in society, it isn’t a requirement.

There is so much more to you than your belly.

You have a personality and lifestyle that she looks to in determining whether she wants to date you.

This makes you multifaceted.

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How Can A Guy Have Personality, Charm And Humor If He’s An Introvert?

How Can A Guy Have Personality, Charm And Humor If He's An Introvert?An introvert can have personality, charm and humor.

These aren’t traits that are exclusive to extroverted guys.

An introverted guy is a human being who has hobbies, interests and talents.

All of these make him innately interesting.

There is one element that primarily separates an extroverted guy from an introverted guy.

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Do Single Women Mind Being Hit On In Public By Guys That Are Attracted To Them?

Do Single Women Mind Being Hit On In Public By Guys That Are Attracted To Them?It’s all about the approach.

As long as the approach is done appropriately, single women don’t mind being hit on in public by a guy.

Where so many guys go wrong is in their approach.

There are guys who are rude about their approach.

Instead of being polite in how they open up the interaction, they are brash and rude.

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His Current Girlfriend Followed Me On Instagram And I Don’t Know Why

His Current Girlfriend Followed Me On Instagram And I Don't Know WhyKnowing that her current boyfriend is a guy you used to date, you are now someone on her radar.

In following you on Instagram, she is curious to see what your life is like.

This is where she gets to watch what you post and gain knowledge about how you think and live.

It isn’t unusual for a woman who is newly dating a guy to be curious about his exes.

The woman wants to get a better idea on what attracted her new boyfriend to said exes.

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Is It Weird To Have Romantic Feelings For A Woman That’s Been Like A Sister To Me?

Is It Weird To Have Romantic Feelings For A Woman That's Been Like A Sister To Me?There was never an intent on your part to develop romantic feelings for her, but it has happened.

This isn’t weird.

When a man and woman have such a close relationship, that it is akin to that of siblings, it means that the two will naturally care for each other deeply.

For a good while, you cared about her like you would a sister, and this made sense.

Nonetheless, unbeknownst to you, the closer you got to her as a friend, there was an increased potential that you would develop romantic feelings for her.

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Why Does He Text Me If He Doesn’t Want To Actually Hang Out?

Why Does He Text Me If He Doesn't Want To Actually Hang Out?It gets so confusing after a while.

He keeps texting you but doesn’t want to actually hang out.

This is evident when there is never anything that is solidly set up.

You are left hoping that he will make himself available soon and make solid plans with you to actually hang out.

But, by the next text conversation, it’s as though nothing was ever mentioned about hanging out in the last text conversation.

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Why Do Men Downgrade After A Breakup In The Woman They Choose To Date?

Why Do Men Downgrade After A Breakup In The Woman They Choose To Date?Men don’t have anywhere near as many dating options as women do.

When they go through a breakup, they are going to settle for what they can get.

For the average guy, settling for a less attractive woman than the one he previously dated is his reality.

It’s not like he has a smartphone filled with the phone numbers of a plethora of attractive female dating prospects to choose from.

He doesn’t have anything close to that.

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My Girlfriend Is Online Late At Night And This Has Me Worried That She Is Cheating On Me

My Girlfriend Is Online Late At Night And This Has Me Worried That She Is Cheating On MeA girlfriend that is online late at night isn’t instantly a sign that she is cheating on you.

Granted, this is behavior that she hasn’t exhibited in the past.

Which is why it has grabbed your attention.

You don’t remember her to be someone who would be online late at night.

Not until now.

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If A Highly Successful Man Hasn’t Had A Girlfriend And He’s 32, Is That A Red Flag?

If A Highly Successful Man Hasn't Had A Girlfriend And He's 32, Is That A Red Flag?A highly successful man didn’t become highly successful without making sacrifices.

To be highly successful, he spent a lot of time working on his education and career.

This is a major sacrifice that the majority of people don’t make.

The majority of people don’t sacrifice this much time and effort to be successful.

As lazy human beings, we have a propensity to choose the path of least resistance as we go through life.

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What To Think Of Dating Apps And How They Have Influenced Society Today?

What To Think Of Dating Apps And How They Have Influenced Society Today?Dating apps have influenced society in a major way.

They have changed the game of dating.

Society has never been in a position where love was a swipe away.

The smartphones we carry in our pockets connect us to dating apps that give us access to an endless amount of people with romantic potential.

This has never happened in history until the advent of the internet.

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Do Guys Like Women Who Do Small Talk Or Women Who Do Meaningful Talk In Relationships?

Do Guys Like Women Who Do Small Talk Or Women Who Do Meaningful Talk In Relationships?Small talk is fun in relationships and have there place.

So does meaningful talk in relationships.

There is a place for either in a relationship.

A healthy relationship has a good dose of the two.

Small talk is good when the guy is in a fun environment and is looking to have lighthearted fun with the woman he is dating.

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Is Dating Even Worth It In This Day And Age Where People In Relationships Are Constantly Cheating?

Is Dating Even Worth It In This Day And Age Where People In Relationships Are Constantly Cheating?With all the cheating that goes on in relationships in this day and age, the thought of dating doesn’t seem worth it to you.

This makes sense.

You are constantly around people in relationships who are cheating on each other.

This goes for your friends, coworkers, and family members.

All of this has left you feeling hopeless, wondering whether dating is even worth it.

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How Do Guys Like To Be Loved When It Comes To Dating And Relationships?

How Do Guys Like To Be Loved When It Comes To Dating And Relationships?Guys don’t ask for much when it comes to how they like to be loved.

This means that what he does like bears a lot of weight.

A substantial need that guys have in dating and relationships is physical intimacy.

He wants to be physically intimate with the woman he is dating on a regular basis.

For men, physical intimacy from the woman he is dating is how she shows him that she loves him and wants to be with him.

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Would A Woman Date A Guy Who Is Still Living At Home With His Parents?

Would A Woman Date A Guy Who Is Still Living At Home With His Parents?The younger the woman is, the likelier she is open to dating a guy who is still living at home with his parents.

A woman in her teenage years or in her early twenties is not as concerned about this factor.

At this stage in her life, she isn’t looking to settle down with a guy for marriage.

This makes her far more open to dating a guy who is still living at home with his parents than an older woman in her late twenties and beyond.

A younger woman is not so concerned about dating a guy who is a good candidate for a long-term relationship or marriage.

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He Has Become Distant, But Says I Am Just Overthinking. Should I Believe Him?

He Has Become Distant, But Says I Am Just Overthinking. Should I Believe HimYou most certainly shouldn’t believe him.

Innately, you know that he has become distant and that isn’t without good reason.

He isn’t initiating texts and phone calls to the extent that he once did.

On top of this, he isn’t taking you out on dates as he once did.

Whenever he is with you, the affectionate hugs and physical closeness are no longer as frequent.

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I Think I Have Found The Perfect Guy, And I Don’t Want To Ruin It By Coming On Too Strong Or Being Weird In Any Way

I Think I Have Found The Perfect Guy, And I Don't Want To Ruin It By Coming On Too Strong Or Being Weird In Any WayAlthough you think you have found the perfect guy, it is far too early to get caught up on what could be.

Realistically, you don’t know this guy well enough to determine whether he is the right guy for you.

I know you are excited right now.

It makes sense.

It’s been a while since you have met a guy like this.

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Would You Date Someone Who Cares About You But Is Emotionally Unavailable?

Would You Date Someone Who Cares About You But Is Emotionally Unavailable?To date someone who cares about you but is emotionally unavailable is to put yourself at emotional risk.

Being that this is someone that cares about you, you mislead yourself into believing it is worth it to date her.

When you do this, you conveniently put the fact that she is emotionally unavailable to the back of your mind.

This is where you are demonstrating that you want to focus on the positive elements of your relationship with her.

It makes you feel good to believe that she cares about you, and that in time, she is going to care about you all that much more and consequently become emotionally available to you.

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Would You Pursue A Girl In A Committed Relationship Who Is Showing An Interest In You?

Would You Pursue A Girl In A Committed Relationship Who Is Showing An Interest In You?Pursuing a girl in a committed relationship comes with complications.

Although you are attracted to this girl, don’t get carried away.

Even though you believe that she is showing signs of attraction towards you, this isn’t a greenlight to pursue her.

A girl in a committed relationship who has shown signs of interest in you is doing so because there is something missing in her relationship.

Her boyfriend isn’t giving her the attention she deserves.

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What Is A Guy’s Ideal Body Type In A Woman That He Wants To Date?

What Is A Guy's Ideal Body Type In A Woman That He Wants To Date?Guy’s are eclectic in the body types that they are attracted to in a woman.

Being that guys are less picky than girls, they have a tendency to be open to a wide range of body types on a woman.

Whether it be fat, stocky, average, slender, petite, and so on.

This being said, there are body types that are the most popular if given a choice for guys.

That of a girl with a slim waist and a healthy figure.

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When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To Date

When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To DateIt’s a quandary that has given you sleepless nights.

There are two females in your life that you are attracted to and getting along with.

They are amazing and you love being around them.

Every time you are hanging out with any one of them, you have a great time and don’t want it to end.

Yet, you know that you can’t date both of them.

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Is It A Deal Breaker To Guys Who Like To Party And Drink Alcohol If A Girl Doesn’t Like To Do All That And Avoids Big Crowds?

Is It A Deal Breaker To Guys Who Like To Party And Drink Alcohol If A Girl Doesn't Like To Do All That And Avoids Big Crowds?Guys who like to party and drink alcohol won’t be unattracted to a girl who doesn’t do all that.

It isn’t a deal breaker to them.

Basically, he knows that you are a girl who isn’t prone to partying and drinking alcohol alongside him, and compartmentalizes.

When he is partying and drinking alcohol, he hangs out with people who participate in these activities.

But he isn’t partying and drinking alcohol 24/7.

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How Normal Is It For Every Woman You’ve Been Romantically Involved With To Go Scorched Earth On You After Parting Ways?

How Normal Is It For Every Woman You've Been Romantically Involved With To Go Scorched Earth On You After Parting Ways?These are women who are still emotionally attached to you.

When they go scorched earth on you after parting ways, they are acting out of emotion.

She never wanted to be broken up with.

She never wanted the relationship with you to end.

When it did, she was dumbfounded.

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A Guy I Have Been Out On Two Dates With Is Mad I Canceled Our Third Date Due To Not Feeling Well

A Guy I Have Been Out On Two Dates With Is Mad I Canceled Our Third Date Due To Not Feeling WellThis is a guy that was excited about meeting you for a third date.

The first two dates went well and he was looking forward to seeing you again.

The cancellation of the third date left him disappointed, making him mad.

You weren’t expecting this.

And now, you don’t know how to address it.

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Why Do I Still Think Of This Guy From My Past, Even If I Love Someone New?

Why Do I Still Think Of This Guy From My Past, Even If I Love Someone New?This guy from your past had a profound emotional effect on you.

You didn’t realize at the time how strong that emotional effect was.

Now that you love someone new, it is hitting you.

You are still thinking about this guy from your past, despite the strong feelings you have for the new guy in your life.

You are thinking about this guy because he fulfilled an emotional component within you that the new guy in your life isn’t fulfilling.

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How Far Overseas Would You Date Someone That You Establish A Connection With?

How Far Overseas Would You Date Someone That You Establish A Connection With?Dating someone that is overseas should never be taken lightly.

Many people get lost in the good emotions they feel when they connect with someone overseas romantically.

This is someone who was missing out on love where they live.

And finally finds an emotional connection with someone overseas.

This is where you are at right now in your life.

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What To Do When You Have A Boyfriend With A Wondering Eye Who Won’t Change This Behavior?

What To Do When You Have A Boyfriend With A Wondering Eye Who Won't Change This Behavior?A boyfriend with a wondering eye is never good.

No doubt, you have had several moments in the past where you have complained about his wondering eye.

When you initially spotted this behavior, you didn’t say anything, being that you didn’t want to be the quintessential jealous girlfriend.

That was the last thing you wanted.

You were so intent on being a good dutiful girlfriend.

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Why Would A Woman Remove A Picture Of Her Boyfriend From Her Work Desk?

Why Would A Woman Remove A Picture Of Her Boyfriend From Her Work Desk?In having a picture of her boyfriend on her work desk, she was demonstrating that she cared about him.

She was proud of her relationship with him, and wanted the world to know.

That means that she wanted coworkers to see the picture of her boyfriend on her work desk.

This let everyone know that she was taken and in love.

Now that she has removed the picture of her boyfriend from her work desk, she is conveying unhappiness towards him.

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What Is A Turnoff To Guys That Girls Do Without Knowing That They Are Doing It?

What Is A Turnoff To Guys That Girls Do Without Knowing That They Are Doing It?It’s a turnoff to guys when a girl is too clingy.

This happens when a girl becomes emotionally attached to a guy as he is courting her.

She isn’t all that aware that she is doing it when it occurs because she is so wrapped up in how she feels about the guy.

Avoid becoming clingy with a guy, especially in the early stages of courtship.

Once a guy gets a sense that a girl is being clingy, it gives him a preview to what she would be like as a girlfriend.

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Is He Into Me If He Only Asks Me For Help With School-Related Stuff?

Is He Into Me If He Only Asks Me For Help With School-Related Stuff?There are cues to look for when you want to figure out whether he is into you.

Even though he only asks you for help with school-related stuff, this doesn’t mean that he isn’t into you.

It comes down to what he does when he is asking for your help with school-related stuff.

A guy who is asking about your help with school-related stuff, but is into you, is bound to give you romantic cues.

Are you catching them?

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Would You Be Friends With, Or Date Somebody That Is Bisexual In Their Lifestyle?

Would You Be Friends With, Or Date Somebody That Is Bisexual In Their Lifestyle?There is a wide difference between being friends with somebody that is bisexual over dating said person.

When you are a friend with a woman that is bisexual, it is a lot less complicated than when you are dating her.

As a friend of hers, her sexual orientation isn’t a factor.

Friendship is similar across sexual orientations.

We all look for the same qualities in a friend, whether that friend is straight or bisexual.

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Why Does My Boyfriend Keep His Exes On Instagram And Facebook As Friends, Even If He Doesn’t Talk To Them?

Why Does My Boyfriend Keep His Exes On Instagram And Facebook As Friends, Even If He Doesn't Talk To Them?In keeping his exes on Instagram and Facebook as friends, he is reluctant to disconnect from them.

This is especially the case when he is a guy that was already friends with them before getting into romantic relationships with them.

In this case, he already saw them as friends before becoming a boyfriend to them, and doesn’t want to lose that aspect of his relationship with them.

Regardless of the romance being over, he still wants to keep them as friends, just as he did before becoming a boyfriend to them.

Even though he isn’t talking to them at the moment, he is hoping they come back to rekindle the friendship he once shared with them.

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What Does It Mean When A Man That You Are Friends With, Says He Wants To Give You His All When You Two Get Into A Relationship?

What Does It Mean When A Man That You Are Friends With, Says He Wants To Give You His All When You Two Get Into A Relationship?This is a man who is intent on making you never regret deciding to get into a relationship with him.

In telling you that he wants to give you his all when you two get into a relationship, he wants to reassure you.

He knows that going from being a friend of yours to a boyfriend is a giant step.

He is fully aware of this.

To this end, he doesn’t want you to have any doubts about getting into a romantic relationship with him.

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A Coworker Said I Was In Her Dream. We Are Not Close. Is She Into Me?

A Coworker Said I Was In Her Dream. We Are Not Close. Is She Into MeThere is no reason to believe that this coworker is into you.

She said you were in her dream, but this doesn’t mean that you are desired by her.

Think about how often you have had dreams where someone you weren’t close to showed up out of nowhere.

That cashier that you see from time to time when you are shopping at the local grocery store.

That bus driver you see from time to time when you are taking the bus to work.

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