It isn’t a good idea to date someone who still lives with their ex-partner.
No matter how innocuous the reason for their cohabitation, it is far too risky.
These are two people who have had intimate feelings for each other in the past.
As long as they are living under the same roof, there is too great of a risk that those feelings resurface.
It can happen at a time they least suspect it.
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Unfortunately, there are men who do pretend to have a girlfriend that they tell mutual friends about.
The intent is that the information gets back to you, his ex, and it makes you jealous.
This is a guy that was unhappy with the breakup and remains emotionally compromised by it.
In pretending to have a girlfriend, he wants you to get worried that he has moved on, and that this new girl in his life is reaping the rewards of having him as a boyfriend.
He is inclined to exaggerate profusely about this pretend girlfriend.
Even though the relationship ended on a bad note, civility in how you act is in order.
This doesn’t mean that you have to stop and talk to your ex.
The best approach if you see or run into your ex in public is to give him a quick and friendly smile acknowledging him, and keep going about your day.
It isn’t prudent to stop and force a conversation with him, or slow down to see whether he wants to have a conversation with you.
Keep in mind that regardless of how bad the relationship ended, it has ended.
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What your ex wants is secondary to what you want.
Try not to think too hard about what he wants, and succumbing to a desire to please him by acquiescing.
Rather, conscientiously consider what you want.
If you know that you don’t want to keep things the same, unless you have the boyfriend and girlfriend titles included, don’t ignore this.
Oftentimes, a girl ignores what she wants for that of an ex, so as to please him, given that she still has feelings for him.
In sending you a body pic, he was fishing to see how you would react to it.
He is your ex.
An ex that is familiar with what you like about his body.
After all, he dated you for an amount of time.
He knows what turns you on about his body and that is what he is counting on in sending you a body pic.
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