A rebound girl is never as meaningful or important as the ex who leaves a guy.
This is a guy who isn’t emotionally available to you.
Yes, he is charming and has a knack for tickling your funny bone.
All of this makes you feel so good whenever you are with him.
But, this doesn’t mean that he is emotionally available to you.
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You are not wrong for feeling insecure that your boyfriend still has his ex’s stuff.
This is stuff that is easy to get rid of.
Items such as her clothing, shoes, jewelry, handbags, makeup, hair clips, ointments, etc.
He is fully aware of your discomfort about these items and keeps telling you that he is getting rid of them.
Nevertheless, whenever you are at his place, you still see his ex’s stuff all about.
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Your first reaction should be to ignore his message.
Do not overthink and get lost in what once was between you.
When an ex reaches out to you, it’s tempting to get mired in how good you felt when you were dating him, before everything fell apart.
This is how loneliness plays with your mind.
At present, you are lonely and crave the feeling you once had with him.
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Initially, it’s exciting to have this ex-girlfriend back in your life after 1-3 years.
Life was a mixed bag for you during the course of those years.
You dated here and there, but no one stuck, nor matched what your ex-girlfriend was like.
She seemingly went through the same ordeal with her love life.
She dated around, had a few short-lived relationships, but never found anyone quite like you.
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On the contrary, he did love you and likely still does to an extent.
In not even looking at you, your ex-boyfriend is showing that he is unhappy about how the relationship ended.
Looking at you is a ticket to opening old wounds, and he doesn’t want that.
Guys struggle with dealing with their emotions.
In lieu of confronting their emotions, they push them aside and distract themselves with doing anything but.
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