Hooking up with someone once, twice, or very sporadically doesn’t have anywhere near the profound effect as hooking up with said person frequently.

When you are frequently hooking up with someone, it makes it that much harder for you to develop an emotional bond and physical attraction for the others that you are looking to date.

On the surface, hooking up with this guy seems to make sense.

Since you aren’t in a committed relationship and still have sexual needs, you get to use this guy to satisfy those sexual needs while you go about dating other guys in the quest to find a potential long-term partner.

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A man who so happens to have a history without serious relationships is usually not a serious relationship type of guy.

A long trail of short-lived noncommittal relationships is a strong sign he isn’t all about settling down and getting serious with a woman he dates.

Look back on how he has behaved with you so far.

Has he taken you out on dates consistently, or repeatedly cancelled or rescheduled them?

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A situationship can sneak up on you without you realizing it.

There is a good chance that you didn’t start this situationship thinking that this was what you wanted.

When you first met him, you thought he was an attractive guy who intrigued and excited you.

To this end, you wanted to engage with him, learn about him, get sexual with him, and see where things went.

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A guy who is serious about you advances the relationship through consistent action.

Whereas a guy who is wasting your time makes empty promises he doesn’t keep.

He tricks you into thinking he wants to make things happen with you, and yet he doesn’t back up his empty promises with action.

He shows you photos of a home in a beautiful suburban area that he tells you he wants to buy one day for the future family he wants to have with you.

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Finding yourself in a predicament where men only want casual sex from you is indicative of who you keep choosing to date.

Sadly, you keep dating the same type of men.

Believing this is all predestination traps you into a mindset of victimhood, which compels you into not taking responsibility for who you choose to date.

The men you choose to date are within your control.

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