No matter how much a woman loves her single life, a biological imperative surges to the surface of her consciousness in time.
That of having children.
This means that she wants to get married.
A marriage is a serious relationship.
Once a woman is in her late twenties and beyond, she is no longer looking to date for fun.
Someone that is noncommittal is worried about making themselves vulnerable.
He doesn’t want to commit to a relationship, fearful that it forces him to have to drop his guard.
His guard has been protecting him for a while now.
It has kept him from getting hurt or getting taken advantage of.
He put this mental guard up after he was hurt in a previous relationship.
A guy that wants you to be his side chick already has a girlfriend or someone he is seeing.
That being said, he has a number of side chicks too.
Meaning, you are one of a few or many side chicks he already has at his disposal.
His girlfriend carries more weight than his side chicks, but not by all that much.
He is addicted to the sex and attention he gets from his side chicks, which means that he is incapable of fully committing to his girlfriend.
This is a guy that is thinking long term about the girl and is no longer taking her lightly.
When it was all about having sex, he primarily thought about just that, sex.
He realizes that he wants more than just sex when sex is not the primary thought in his mind whenever he thinks about her.
Instead of being fixated on seeing her that week and having sex with her, he is thinking about cooking for her or watching a movie together.
Basically, the thought of having sex with her isn’t as prevalent.
The woman’s intention is critical.
A woman with an intention to get into a committed relationship, who stays in a casual relationship as a sidepiece or side chick for over a year, is misguided.
Each day, month or year she stays in this casual relationship after the first year, is a day, month or year too long.
Initially, she entered a casual relationship with him without that much of an intent to be exclusive or have a long-term relationship.
In this vain, she thought she would be fine.
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