As much as he has promised you, he is clearly not living up to it.
He gave you the impression that he was open to a serious relationship.
With that premise, a pseudo courtship began.
A substantive amount of time has transpired since then, and there are no signs of him committing to you.
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Avoidant behavior, where he demonstrates a complete reluctance to be in social situations and avoids emotional closeness, is where the big red flag exists.
Some guys who have 0 friends are constantly afraid of putting themselves in vulnerable situations where they are judged or criticized by people.
Unfortunately, prior to anything socially uncomfortable happening, he is already thinking that everyone is out to take advantage of him, and this compels him to develop a rigid self-defense mentality.
That’s where the complete reluctance to be in social situations and the avoidance of emotional closeness become so apparent.
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As a shy guy, there have been several instances where you wanted to talk to an attractive girl but couldn’t muster the courage to do it.
Your mind becomes your worst enemy in these moments.
It tells you that she won’t be attracted to you or that she will think that you are weird.
Oftentimes, you use the “she has a boyfriend” excuse to keep you from making a move on her.
Staying single for too long leads to established routines that become a major part of who you are and how you go about your day.
Everything from how your closet is arranged to where you put specific items in your fridge is already a part of your everyday routine.
Even the temperature you keep your apartment at has already been long since established.
The tasks you do outside of the home are preset.
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The man has chosen to give you expensive gifts on his own volition.
He loves giving.
That is his love language.
Even though he doesn’t verbally ask for anything material in return, your acceptance of his expensive gifts is what gets him off.
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