There have been several moments when you have engaged in conversations with your guy friend that lasted hours.
He often flirts in these conversations too.
Not to mention, he has instigated a hangout with you on several occasions where he has gotten a bit too touchy-feely with you as well as paid for the food and drinks.
All of these occasions have confused you as to what to make of it.
Continue reading Is My Guy Friend Into Me or Just Stringing Me Along While He Has a Girlfriend?
A man who so happens to have a history without serious relationships is usually not a serious relationship type of guy.
A long trail of short-lived noncommittal relationships is a strong sign he isn’t all about settling down and getting serious with a woman he dates.
Look back on how he has behaved with you so far.
Has he taken you out on dates consistently, or repeatedly cancelled or rescheduled them?
Continue reading Is He Really Not Ready for a Serious Relationship or Just Not With Me?
Regardless of how excited she seemed when you asked her out on a date, she ghosted you because she was waiting for a spark that never happened.
She was excited, as she thought you physically attractive, and this fomented an anticipation that a spark would unfold with subsequent conversations.
Her ultimate goal was to develop both a physical and emotional attraction towards you before the day of the date.
At this early stage, you were halfway there with her.
Continue reading Why Would a Woman Ghost Me on the Day of Our Date After Seeming Excited?
Since most people date someone who is fairly similar to their level of physical attractiveness, it would be rare for a more attractive person to show an interest in them.
Most partners that you will have in your life will be at about your level of physical attractiveness.
That is the reality of dating.
Nevertheless, human beings are hypergamous by nature, as we often desire what is better and greater than us in a partner.
Continue reading Would You Leave Your Partner if a More Attractive Person Liked You?
The men you have been dating aren’t the kind of men that genuinely excite you emotionally and create a poignant spark.
On paper, they look good.
They are physically attractive, have a good education and career, make good money, come from reputable families, have life goals, etc.
As a result, you are compelled to go out on a date with such a man.
Continue reading Why Do I Get Bored So Quickly and Struggle To Commit to One Partner?