When he is younger and in his early twenties, he is all about getting out and partying.
In these years of his life, he is in search of short-term fun.
This is where he wants to hook up with the girl at the party venue, whether it be a nightclub or house party.
His hormones, especially testosterone, are still raging, and his intense sex drive pushes him to go to party venues in search of girls who are game for short-term fun.
When you are constantly interacting with someone of the opposite sex, it’s common to develop real feelings for that person without meaning to.
This is how several people end up becoming romantic with each other in environments that require constant interaction, such as the workplace, for instance.
Playing games to get someone to like you is damaging in the long term.
The games can get you that person in the short term, but they ultimately lead to you losing that person in the long term.
When you play games, you act in an unnatural way so as to psychologically get the person you like to like you back.
Whether it be playing hard to get by making yourself regularly unavailable for conversations and dates or giving the impression that you are distracted by lots of other male suitors as you keep withholding compliments and affection from him, the games lead to a voracious desire on his part to be with you.
