When you love someone and they make you feel so good, you are immensely susceptible to diminishing genuinely critical issues such as that of financial instability in said partner so as to maintain the feeling.
You are filled with powerful feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine when you are in love.
It’s intoxicating to be besieged with these neurotransmitters that foster emotional attachment, euphoria, and infatuation all at the same time.
It’s as though you are floating and there isn’t anything in the world that is capable of ruining your day as long as you have this man in your life.
Those who get into long-distance relationships with a realistic approach and an actionable plan for when they intend to live in close proximity are usually the ones who make it in the long run.
Too many people get too caught up on how good they feel when they have finally connected with someone who fulfills them emotionally.
Someone who is super attractive and over 35 but still single isn’t an automatic red flag.
Since men are usually expected to carry the financial role in a relationship, he has the burden of getting himself financially sound.
The reality is, there are several men who choose to bypass getting into serious relationships until they have established themselves financially.
He works really hard to get to a place financially where he can own his own house and car, afford vacations, and most importantly, afford to provide for a woman and future offspring.