No matter what disappointments you have experienced in dating, you should never believe that all of those experiences define who you are.
People often make the mistake in drawing a conclusion that they must be a certain way as their dating experiences always seem to go wrong.
Yes, when there is something you keep hearing as a criticism by previous partners, you should most certainly take it into advisement, but you should never conclude that you are beyond saving.
You didn’t get into a relationship with your boyfriend to become a weekend girlfriend.
Getting to see him only on the weekends when this was never the expectation is a big deal.
The longer you let this happen without addressing it in a significant way, the worse it gets.
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You’ve had negative experiences with men or witnessed too many instances where men treated their partners badly.
It doesn’t help that you didn’t necessarily grow up around good men either.
You witnessed abuse or negativity of some sort while you were still in your formative years.
Let him be the one to ask you out on a second date.
It is alright for you to become more proactive in asking a guy out on a date after he has already asked you out on a number of dates and some time has passed since you both started going out.
When it is this early in the courtship process, you should let him ask you out for the second date.
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A shared interest is normally a good start.
When there is something that the both of you identify with, it is so much easier to form an initial connection.
It’s just like making friends in a way.
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