Amongst your peers, there is a familiarity that can sometimes feel too predictable.
Activities you do with them are expected and commonplace.
All of this is serviceable but remains predictable and deficient.
In your dating experience with younger men in your peer group, this predictability and deficiency is what you have become accustomed to.
Confusion about whether you just had a date or were hanging out isn’t out of the ordinary.
Whether you are attracted to this guy isn’t in question.
And you thought that his attraction for you wasn’t in question either.
He has flirted with you in the past through compliments and teasing.
People in relationships have the tendency to let themselves go.
This is a slow but definite killer to a relationship.
Naturally, people get comfortable when they have landed a reliable long-term partner.
Someone who is in love with you and you can rely on.
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There are men who can be chatterboxes.
Once he gets going, he can’t be stopped.
Small talk is his middle name.
He is chatting to you about what he did over the weekend, what he thinks about the newest smartphone, why he loves birdwatching, etc.
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Dressing appropriately for the occasion is key.
A first date that isn’t too much too soon is the right approach.
A coffee date, ice cream, brunch, lunch, a walk, a smoothie, juice, frozen yogurt, etc., are all appropriate first dates.
The first date is about determining compatibility.