Being picky and having high standards is the most damaging when you are unrealistic about your own value in the dating landscape.
This is where people have too high of an opinion of themselves.
They develop such a high sense of self that they expect the same unrealistic qualities in a significant other.
Today, we live in a politically correct world where people are constantly being told that they are of high value in physical appearance, character, and accomplishments.
Thinking that you are too ugly for a boyfriend didn’t come out of nowhere.
It’s as though you are invisible to men.
They don’t approach you or show any signs of interest.
As far as you are concerned, you might as well walk around in an invisible cloak.
The person wants you to bear the burden of having to choose the spot for a first date.
This alleviates a significant amount of pressure on him to deliver a successful first date.
Basically, he wants you to bear a sizable degree of responsibility for the first date.
This way, should it not go well, you can’t say he is to blame for picking a bad location for the first date.
Continue reading If Someone Asked You to Pick the Spot for a First Date, Where Would You Go?
There should be no need for your boyfriend to text other girls.
He has you.
In texting other girls, he is demonstrating that you aren’t enough for him.
He wants and craves the attention of these other girls.
Continue reading Is It Okay That Your Boyfriend Texts Other Girls?
An acceptable age gap when dating depends on what works for you and a potential mate.
An appropriate age gap isn’t arbitrary.
That said, the wider the age gap, the greater the controversy.
For example, a 15- to 20-year age gap opens you up to criticism and judgment from family, friends, and people at large.