The weight you carry has been directly connected to your interpretation of your own self-confidence for a while.
You haven’t liked being overweight or obese for the longest time.
It has negatively affected how attractive you deem yourself to be and your self-esteem.
The harsh reality is you don’t consider yourself to be physically attractive, and thanks to this, your self-confidence and self-esteem are at an all-time low, and you have low self-esteem.
This is your favorite coffee shop, and you are friendly with some of the baristas behind the counter.
Notwithstanding, there is a newer barista you have noticed in the last few weeks, and you think he is cute.
It isn’t lost on you that whenever you show up in the coffee shop and get in line, he has the biggest smile on his face when you get in front of him and he is taking your order.
Much more than the professional smile he reserves for regular customers.
