When his generosity is coming at you too fast and too soon, there is a good chance he is love bombing you.
This is where he is far too premature in giving you far too many gifts before he has even learned what your favorite color is, or he is lauding your character before he knows whether you have ever been arrested.
This is too much too soon.
Before he took you out on the first date, he was already going overboard with all the affection, compliments, gift-giving, and favors.
There have been far too many occasions when you have been drawn to these controlling men.
The truth is, controlling men have certain qualities that you are attracted to.
With regularity, controlling men are confident, highly successful in their professional careers, have wealth or are very financially solvent, have leadership instincts that attract a lot of people who look up to them, are bold and aggressive in going after what they want, etc.
Controlling men have these qualities, and you have a history of being drawn to men with these qualities.
Since men do the approaching, they are constantly exposing themselves to rejection.
When a man is rejected, it compels him to question his level of physical attractiveness.
When he has a mom and other doting family members that have told him his entire life that he is handsome, it is really hard for him to accept rejection from a girl.
