A first date is about getting to know each other so that you ascertain whether there is compatibility.
That is the primary objective of a first date and should be the expectation.
When you put far too much emphasis on where the first date should be, it becomes more about the location than the intention.
The intention is what matters most on a first date.
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These two guys clearly have qualities that you want in a potential partner.
This is why you are in a position where you have been dating the two of them.
What complicates this is in how your physical and emotional energy is being divided between them.
Since you are dating these two guys, your attention is divided.
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When you are constantly interacting with someone of the opposite sex, it’s common to develop real feelings for that person without meaning to.
This is how several people end up becoming romantic with each other in environments that require constant interaction, such as the workplace, for instance.
Lots of people meet their romantic partners at work.
The person who sits in a cubicle or office across from you is someone you see for multiple hours several days a week.
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Playing games to get someone to like you is damaging in the long term.
The games can get you that person in the short term, but they ultimately lead to you losing that person in the long term.
When you play games, you act in an unnatural way so as to psychologically get the person you like to like you back.
Whether it be playing hard to get by making yourself regularly unavailable for conversations and dates or giving the impression that you are distracted by lots of other male suitors as you keep withholding compliments and affection from him, the games lead to a voracious desire on his part to be with you.
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Sadly, your friend was already intrigued or attracted to your ex before the two of you broke up.
Flirtatious exchanges occurred between them, whether it was through eye contact or physical touch, while you were still in a relationship with your now ex.
These flirtatious exchanges were subtle enough for you to miss them, but they probably happened.
Meanwhile, your head was in the clouds, hopelessly in love with him, when in fact he had already exchanged some flirtatious moments with your friend.
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