If They Treat Me Great but Others Terribly, Are They Still a Good Partner?

If They Treat Me Great but Others Terribly, Are They Still a Good Partner?

Sadly, this isn’t a good partner.

Someone who is innately good treats everyone with kindness and respect unless given a justifiable reason not to be.

In your case, this is a guy who treats you great because you appeal to him physically and emotionally at the moment.

Since you trigger this sentiment in him, he pedestalizes you.

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Would You Date Someone Financially Unstable if You Truly Loved Them?

Would You Date Someone Financially Unstable if You Truly Loved Them?

When you love someone and they make you feel so good, you are immensely susceptible to diminishing genuinely critical issues such as that of financial instability in said partner so as to maintain the feeling.

You are filled with powerful feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine when you are in love.

It’s intoxicating to be besieged with these neurotransmitters that foster emotional attachment, euphoria, and infatuation all at the same time.

It’s as though you are floating and there isn’t anything in the world that is capable of ruining your day as long as you have this man in your life.

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Are Long-Distance Relationships Actually Worth It in the Long Run?

Are Long-Distance Relationships Actually Worth It in the Long Run?

Those who get into long-distance relationships with a realistic approach and an actionable plan for when they intend to live in close proximity are usually the ones who make it in the long run.

Too many people get too caught up on how good they feel when they have finally connected with someone who fulfills them emotionally.

When you are in a position in your life where you crave the love and attention of someone who makes you feel alive and happy.

This effect is that much more profound when you have been going through a difficult time in your life or have had a rough romantic life.

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He’s Distant After Three Days of Texting—Should I Match His Energy?

He’s Distant After Three Days of Texting—Should I Match His Energy?

Three days of continuous texting can be a lot.

Especially for a guy who is still in the early stages of wooing and getting to know you.

Although you enjoyed all that texting over those three days, it’s possible he only did it to keep up with your energy.

Nonetheless, he probably isn’t the type who does this much texting in such a short time span.

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