The spaces you put yourself in are filled with younger men.
Even though you are in your thirties, you continue to put yourself in the same spaces you did when you were in your twenties.
Are you religiously going to nightclubs to socialize just as you did when you were in your twenties?
Nightclubs are havens for younger men who are often in their twenties.
All your life, you have never required an intoxicant to set you at ease and get you to relax.
There are several things that do that for you, whether it be a spa treatment, a phenomenal bubble bath, enjoying your favorite sparkling water beverage, watching your favorite reality TV show, etc.
That’s you.
But dating isn’t a solo activity.
A high-maintenance woman lives a certain lifestyle that some men can provide and others can’t.
Several of the men who have the financial means to provide this lifestyle don’t have a problem spoiling a partner.
That said, a man like this will still be put off by a high-maintenance woman when she expects high-maintenance treatment right from the start.
His initial intention when he meets a woman is to determine compatibility.
The honeymoon phase in a new relationship lasts about six to twelve months.
As a new couple, you are living in that phase right now.
Given the amount of dopamine and serotonin in your systems, you are likely wanting to be around each other as much as possible.
You are a new couple, and it feels like there are so many more adventures remaining to be had and much more to learn about each other.
There are already rumors abounding about him within his sphere of influence.
These rumors pervade from mutual friends and acquaintances, workmates, schoolmates, social media, etc.
When you pay attention to these spaces, you are capable of picking up on signs he’s a player, starting with what his reputation is.
Several girls from his past talk to people who are within his sphere of influence about their negative experiences with him.