A man usually takes 2 to 3 years to propose to his long-term girlfriend.
Keeping this in mind, be careful that you aren’t assuming he is taking too long to propose, when in fact, the time frame is still within the average time it usually takes for a guy to propose to his long-term girlfriend.
Usually, he already knows he wants to marry her well before this time frame has elapsed.
Nevertheless, he waits to propose so as to accomplish some financial, professional, or personal goals to put himself in the best possible position to get married to his girlfriend.
Shy women inadvertently exhibit body language that can be easily interpreted for someone who doesn’t want to be approached.
She is sitting among her friends, hiding from view, looking at her smartphone, and unengaged.
Whereas her more outgoing girlfriends are talking to each other, talking to men they just met at the social venue they are in, flirting, laughing, and showing excitement and engagement.
This kind of body language makes a guy look at an outgoing woman as someone they can approach and talk to.
Speed dating is advantageous in that you get to physically see who you are dealing with at the physical venue of the event, such as a restaurant, café, or bar.
Thanks to the rotation setup, which allows you to talk to someone at the event for about 3-8 minutes before moving on to the next person, you get a very good read on what the person physically looks like in real time.