A man who so happens to have a history without serious relationships is usually not a serious relationship type of guy.
A long trail of short-lived noncommittal relationships is a strong sign he isn’t all about settling down and getting serious with a woman he dates.
Look back on how he has behaved with you so far.
Has he taken you out on dates consistently, or repeatedly cancelled or rescheduled them?
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Regardless of how excited she seemed when you asked her out on a date, she ghosted you because she was waiting for a spark that never happened.
She was excited, as she thought you physically attractive, and this fomented an anticipation that a spark would unfold with subsequent conversations.
Her ultimate goal was to develop both a physical and emotional attraction towards you before the day of the date.
At this early stage, you were halfway there with her.
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Since most people date someone who is fairly similar to their level of physical attractiveness, it would be rare for a more attractive person to show an interest in them.
Most partners that you will have in your life will be at about your level of physical attractiveness.
That is the reality of dating.
Nevertheless, human beings are hypergamous by nature, as we often desire what is better and greater than us in a partner.
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The men you have been dating aren’t the kind of men that genuinely excite you emotionally and create a poignant spark.
On paper, they look good.
They are physically attractive, have a good education and career, make good money, come from reputable families, have life goals, etc.
As a result, you are compelled to go out on a date with such a man.
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When he asked for your Instagram, he was excited in the moment and looking forward to continuing to get to know you through Instagram.
Once you gave him your Instagram and accepted his follow request, everything changed.
He now had access to your Instagram feed posts and reels, stories and highlights, followers and following lists, etc.
With this kind of access, he had an opportunity to get a more substantial idea of who you were.
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