Although the conversations with him have been fun and invigorating, he has lost interest.
The truth is, his interest was never piqued to begin with.
He liked talking to you to help kill boredom and get a boost to his ego.
Knowing that you liked him made him feel good about himself, and he wanted to bask in it for a while.
Since you met each other on a dating app, there is a general assumption that you are seeing other people.
After all, you are yet to have the exclusivity talk.
There is a good chance that just like you, he is still using the dating app and entertaining new matches.
Yes, you have been seeing each other, but unless there is a proper discussion about exclusivity, there is no reason for you to tell him that you are going on dates with others.
A guy in his 30s is likely going to date a woman in her late 20s to early to mid 30s.
These are women who are usually within 1 to 3 years of his own age.
Ergo, if you are a woman in her 30s who is looking to date a man in his 30s, you have a very statistically high chance of accomplishing this.
Granted, it is understandable that you worry about whether he would have an issue with how hard of a time it might be for you to get pregnant as a woman in her 30s.
The guys who are older than you have a knowledge, maturity, financial wherewithal, and an understanding of women, thanks to their dating experience, that the guys your own age mostly don’t have.
As a woman, you are biologically predisposed to want to date someone who has a lot to offer.
So far, an older guy has had much more to offer you in dating than guys your own age.
All of this makes you feel physically, emotionally, and financially safe, which are all necessary for you to be wholly attracted to a guy.
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The imagination can be very easily stimulated while texting someone you are attracted to.
Since the communication is over text, your mind expands on what you are reading.
A simple phrase could be interpreted as much more than what it was intended to mean.
Receiving the smallest compliment, such as one complimenting a new hairstyle, is quickly interpreted as a strong sign of romantic interest on his part.