During childhood, your parents ingrained a mantra in your consciousness that you should work hard to ensure you become independent and never have to rely on any man.
Thanks to this hard work, you have climbed the layers of success in the corporate world after putting in the time at school to get a worthy degree.
Being that you have this mindset, you give off the energy and persona that you don’t need a man in your life.
When he is younger and in his early twenties, he is all about getting out and partying.
In these years of his life, he is in search of short-term fun.
This is where he wants to hook up with the girl at the party venue, whether it be a nightclub or house party.
His hormones, especially testosterone, are still raging, and his intense sex drive pushes him to go to party venues in search of girls who are game for short-term fun.
When you are constantly interacting with someone of the opposite sex, it’s common to develop real feelings for that person without meaning to.
This is how several people end up becoming romantic with each other in environments that require constant interaction, such as the workplace, for instance.