If he isn’t jealous, that doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you.
He may not be the type of man that gets jealous easily.
He may be more secure with his relationship than most.
Hence, he may simply not start reacting out of jealousy because the girl that he is dating is getting attention from other men.
If he trusts you and is secure within himself, he may just not feel the impulse to get jealous.
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Being less pessimistic about dating requires that you avoid judging new dating prospects based on negative experiences that you have had in dating in the past.
It can be difficult to do this because as human beings, we tend to use our past experiences to prejudge people.
You have to try to avoid this.
The men who become paranoid or bitter about dating women after dating a horrible woman may have given a lot of themselves to those relationships.
These were women that they may have put a lot of their trust in.
That trust was betrayed in some fashion by the horrible woman and the men become paranoid and bitter.
People respond to a sense of betrayal in different ways.
Staying in a one-sided relationship is never a good idea.
If you have a partner that doesn’t put out much effort into the relationship, you should not allow this to keep happening.
All of this may have started because you tend to be overzealous when it comes to relationships.
It would be wrong.
Telling your boyfriend to cut off his female friends would be controlling.
Even if he were to acquiesce because he cares about you so much and is more concerned about losing you than anything else, there will come a time when he will most likely detest you.
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