Even though it was a great first date , he was hiding the fact he was disappointed by what he saw.
He didn’t mention it during the date so as not to be impolite, but this disappointment stirred within him throughout the first date.
If you initially connected or matched with this guy on a dating app or social media, he already had a very set expectation of what he thought you looked like physically.
When you showed up on the first date looking physically different from what he was expecting, he was disappointed inside.
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Sadly, you were never a girl he cared that much about seriously getting to know .
He loved the attention he got from you.
When you laughed at his jokes and teased him right back , you gave him a thrill.
This gave him a boost to his ego.
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In the early conversations, these men are motivated by how enjoyable you are to talk to .
You are very chill at this time, making conversation that is easygoing, fun, and flirtatious.
During this period, your behavior is carefree, which allows you to engage in these conversations without any obvious expectations .
Inevitably, this carefree behavior changes in time.
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The texts you were receiving from him prior to the first date were all a buildup.
Those texts were leading to the first date.
As a result, they were frenzied, given how much romantic chemistry was being established with each text conversation.
Now that the first date has happened, and it was amazing, lasting as long as 7 hours, there is a natural cooling off period that comes with that.
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Although the conversations with him have been fun and invigorating, he has lost interest .
The truth is, his interest was never piqued to begin with.
He liked talking to you to help kill boredom and get a boost to his ego.
Knowing that you liked him made him feel good about himself, and he wanted to bask in it for a while.
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