Category Archives: Ghosting

Why Do Men Act So Into Me at First and Then Just Vanish Without Explanation?

In the early conversations, these men are motivated by how enjoyable you are to talk to.

You are very chill at this time, making conversation that is easygoing, fun, and flirtatious.

During this period, your behavior is carefree, which allows you to engage in these conversations without any obvious expectations.

Inevitably, this carefree behavior changes in time.

The texts you were receiving from him prior to the first date were all a buildup.

Those texts were leading to the first date.

As a result, they were frenzied, given how much romantic chemistry was being established with each text conversation.

Now that the first date has happened, and it was amazing, lasting as long as 7 hours, there is a natural cooling off period that comes with that.

Although the conversations with him have been fun and invigorating, he has lost interest.

The truth is, his interest was never piqued to begin with.

He liked talking to you to help kill boredom and get a boost to his ego.

Knowing that you liked him made him feel good about himself, and he wanted to bask in it for a while.

Once the date was over, you were already envisioning the next one.

The dopamine in your system was at a tremendous high.

Before you parted ways, there was already a tentative idea or plan for the next date that was briefly discussed.

By the time you got home and texted her, you couldn’t remember the last time you were this excited about someone.

Thanks to the advancement of technology through social media and dating sites, people have more dating options than ever.

Back in the old days, people were relegated to dating those that grew up with them in their local towns and communities.

With the internet, a person’s dating options are no longer relegated to a high school sweetheart or the person that sits next to them at work.

With a smartphone, and a dating app or social media application, she has the power to welcome an endless number of romantic suitors.