Sexting is cheating.
Cheating isn’t relegated to physical cheating only.
People cheat in various ways.
He knows he can get away with it.
He has had a history of cheating on his pretty girlfriends and has gotten away with it.
At first, she cries and pouts, telling him that the relationship is over.
She was there.
It was easy.
He didn’t have to put out a whole lot of work to get the less attractive woman to sleep with him.
As long as these are hours where he isn’t at work or class or involved in something you know has him unable to return your call or message, a pattern of being unreachable for hours is concerning.
Obviously, you have asked him why and he is telling you something that you don’t believe.
Hearing empty excuses over and over again doesn’t translate to feeling better about this.
Married men don’t go blind once they are married.
They still have eyes and those eyes know what beautiful looks like.
That doesn’t change with marriage.