
Since you met each other on a dating app, there is a general assumption that you are seeing other people.
After all, you are yet to have the exclusivity talk.
There is a good chance that just like you, he is still using the dating app and entertaining new matches.
Yes, you have been seeing each other, but unless there is a proper discussion about exclusivity, there is no reason for you to tell him that you are going on dates with others.
If he asks you whether you are, you can tell him that you are.
There is no reason to be dishonest.
You have done nothing wrong in continuing to go on dates with other guys.
On average, it takes about 9 months for two people who meet on a dating app to become exclusive.
How long have you been seeing each other?
If it is still within 9 months, there is nothing to worry about.
By remaining on the dating app, the two of you are still weighing your options, and there is nothing wrong with that.
The whole point of getting on a dating app is to find your most compatible match.
You won’t really know who is your most compatible match until you go on dates with multiple guys.
This is how you can expedite the process of finding the right guy for you.
If you were to only go on dates with one guy at a time, it could take you much more than the average time of 9 months to find your relationship partner.
As long as you don’t overdo it, which enables you to give each guy you are going on dates with a fair shot, you are better off going on dates with multiple guys at a time as you seek out the right partner.
Keep in mind that he is likely doing the same thing, not just through the dating app you met him on but through other dating apps as well.
Most people sign up on multiple dating apps at a time.
For all you know, he is on multiple dating apps.
To reiterate, since you already met each other on a dating app, there is a logical assumption that you are going on dates with other matches.
There is nothing wrong with this.
There is no reason for you to belabor this by telling him that you are going on dates with others unless he asks you.
If he does, be honest with him but do so without guilt.
After all, you have done nothing wrong.
If he gives you a hard time over it, this is a strong sign you are dealing with a selfish and controlling guy, especially if you later discover that he is maintaining an active profile on the dating app you met him on and possibly others.
Until you have a conversation with a guy you are seeing about exclusivity, and there is a mutual agreement to only date each other and to delete the dating app accounts, you can date as many other matches as you so choose.
