Category Archives: First Few Dates

Is an Invitation to Watch or Play Sports a Date?

Is an Invitation to Watch or Play Sports a Date?

When he gives you an invitation to watch or play sports and extends the same invitation to his other friends, it is rarely a date, especially when this is the first social meetup with him.

A man that is romantically interested in you naturally wants to do something with you on a one-on-one basis to determine whether there is romantic chemistry without distractions.

In going on multiple dates with you and determining romantic chemistry, he naturally wants to introduce you to his friends, having already informed them of his romantic interest in you.

In this scenario, he invites you to watch or play sports so that you get to meet his friends, who are now eager to meet you, given everything he has already told them about you.

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If Someone Asked You to Pick the Spot for a First Date, Where Would You Go?

If Someone Asked You to Pick the Spot for a First Date, Where Would You Go?

The person wants you to bear the burden of having to choose the spot for a first date.

This alleviates a significant amount of pressure on him to deliver a successful first date.

Basically, he wants you to bear a sizable degree of responsibility for the first date.

This way, should it not go well, you can’t say he is to blame for picking a bad location for the first date.

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