The person wants you to bear the burden of having to choose the spot for a first date.
This alleviates a significant amount of pressure on him to deliver a successful first date.
Basically, he wants you to bear a sizable degree of responsibility for the first date.
This way, should it not go well, you can’t say he is to blame for picking a bad location for the first date.
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Much of this fear of dating is based on insecurities you have.
There is anxiety about being a disappointment to whoever you go out on a date with.
You don’t consider yourself adequate enough or worthy of dating.
These are self-esteem issues that you must work on, as building a positive sense of self is critical.
A girl that asks you out is looking to pay for the date.
She is fully aware that a girl asking a guy out is out of the ordinary.
In asking you out, she is assuming the financial burden of the first date.
Since girls aren’t prone to asking a guy out all that often, doing so is a strong indication of how much she likes the guy.
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The first date wasn’t all that impressive to you in terms of the extravagance of the activity.
And now, you are wondering whether he is cheap and a red flag.
After all, you were expecting him to do something more thoughtful and costly on a date.
Not that you want him to spend all his savings on you, but you believe that when a man puts in the time to plan a more elaborate date and spends a good amount of money that aligns with the activity, he is demonstrating that he is taking you seriously and has skin in the game.
These are guys who were never genuinely interested in meeting you on a date in the first place.
Even though it seemed as though there was interest on his part, much of that had to do with how much he was enjoying the attention you were giving him.
It was obvious that you were showing strong signs of being more into him than he was into you.
You were the one who was showing the most enthusiasm whenever you talked to him on the phone or texted each other.
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