Category Archives: First Few Dates

Have You Ever Been Ghosted After a Really Good Date?

Once the date was over, you were already envisioning the next one.

The dopamine in your system was at a tremendous high.

Before you parted ways, there was already a tentative idea or plan for the next date that was briefly discussed.

By the time you got home and texted her, you couldn’t remember the last time you were this excited about someone.

The laughter and flirting were a constant throughout the first date, and this was so exhilarating.

That said, there was something that was bothering you throughout the date.

Every so often, you saw him looking in the direction of other women.

He is debonair and sexy, and he asks you out on a date.

The excitement in you is palpable as you anticipate meeting him for an official date.

Every day leading to the date is filled with questions in your mind.

Will we get along, laugh, and have romantic chemistry?

After a good first date, not all guys instantly jump at the opportunity to plan the next date.

This is a guy who is being tempered in how he goes about planning the next date.

As a result, it appears as though he is being slow in planning the next date, but to him, he is moving at a deliberate pace.

He wants to avoid being too much too soon.

A successful first date is usually followed up with consistent communication.

The guy is excited about how well the first date went and is anticipating the possibility of a second.

In the meantime, he communicates more so than he did before the first date.

The first date was a first step into learning whether there was romantic and sexual chemistry.