In his mind, what he has gotten to know about you is enough for him to want to meet you in person for a date.

It’s easy to get a bit too comfortable with the occasional conversations you have with him.

There isn’t all that much pressure.

Hearing from him kills boredom for a period of time, giving you a break from whatever you were doing that was boring you.

Although you believe that you have been barely getting to know each other all this time, he has already determined that there is enough information gleaned and compatibility to want to take things to the next logical step, which would be meeting you in person for a date.

You are telling yourself you require more conversation with him to determine whether you should meet him in person on a date.

With this justification, you believe he is pushing for a date super fast instead of getting to just know you and connect.

His desire to want to meet you in person at this point isn’t a red flag.

Unlike you, he knows that continuing to talk over the phone or social media won’t do all that much to create a real connection.

So far, you have barely been getting to know each other.

It has been a bit too lackadaisical.

As far as he is concerned, it is apropos to change things up and actually meet in person.

He worries that the lackadaisical nature and infrequency in how you communicate with each other are powerful indicators that things are about to fizzle out.

Think about how you normally act when you are talking to a guy you are interested in.

Are you this lackadaisical in how you communicate?

Are you this apathetic in the process of getting to know him?

The truth is, not only are you normally more consistent in communicating with him, you are ready to meet in person fairly quickly.

You never require an undetermined amount of time to supposedly get to know a guy before knowing you are ready to meet him in person on a date.

You already know within a few conversations with him.

Be honest with yourself.

You aren’t really all that into this particular guy.

The interest is nothing like what you feel whenever you have taken a real fancy for a guy in the past.

That is why you want to take an undetermined amount of time to supposedly get to know this guy and just connect.

Knowing he likes you is reassuring, triggering a boost to your self-esteem.

Notwithstanding, the thought of actually going out on a date with him doesn’t excite you all that much.

You would much rather continue the intermittent back-and-forth communication with him for an indeterminate period of time than actually take him up on his offer to meet for a date in person.

Sadly, you are wasting your time and his.

The moment you accept this and respectfully tell him you don’t believe there is a viable romantic connection, the sooner you get to move on to find potential partners that are more compatible.