All your life, you have never required an intoxicant to set you at ease and get you to relax.
There are several things that do that for you, whether it be a spa treatment, a phenomenal bubble bath, enjoying your favorite sparkling water beverage, watching your favorite reality TV show, etc.
That’s you.
But dating isn’t a solo activity.
The honeymoon phase in a new relationship lasts about six months to two years.
As a new couple, you are living in that phase right now.
Given the amount of dopamine and serotonin in your systems, you are likely wanting to be around each other as much as possible.
You are a new couple, and it feels like there are so many more adventures remaining to be had and much more to learn about each other.
There are already rumors abounding about him within his sphere of influence.
These rumors pervade from mutual friends and acquaintances, workmates, schoolmates, social media, etc.
When you pay attention to these spaces, you are capable of picking up on signs he’s a player, starting with what his reputation is.
Several girls from his past talk to people who are within his sphere of influence about their negative experiences with him.
Fitness is like a religion to some guys.
He spends so much time in the gym he doesn’t take that much time to work on his social skills in traditionally social venues such as nightclubs, bars, house and pool parties, birthday celebrations, etc.
His comfort zone is the gym.
Short of his own apartment, there is nowhere else he feels at home and as comfortable as he does in the gym.
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A relationship partner who knows how to identify their emotions and those of others is critical.
Having this type of awareness makes him capable of understanding his emotions, why he is feeling those particular emotions, and how to manage and control them.
By the same token, he is aware of his partner’s emotions, why she is going through those emotions, and how to properly address and manage said emotions so as to maintain the health and integrity of the relationship.
Emotional intelligence is an essential component of a healthy relationship, as it keeps the two partners in a constant state of awareness.