A blind date is putting two people in a dating situation that is mutually agreed upon, making splitting the tab the right option.
It is a blind date that has occurred through a shared agreement to meet.
No one took the initiative to make the date happen by being the aggressor.
Therefore, you approach it as a date that is on neutral grounds.
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He went cold after the first two dates , having lost interest in you, and no longer wanting to put out the effort as a consequence.
There is a part of him that believed the connection he had with you during those two dates were sufficient.
Notwithstanding, at a moment in time after the second date, he began to doubt that.
It was a specific exchange that either of you had during the date , or something in particular you said or did on the dates that made him feel uneasy.
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The guy was raised to believe that paying for a date is his duty as the man, so he gets mad or offended when that duty is disrespected.
A girl who pays, leaves him believing that he didn’t do his duty as a man.
A guy paying for the date is behavior they were indoctrinated with their whole lives, within the families and communities that they grew up in.
As a result, they adopt this ideology .
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After a good second date, contact the girl on the same day or the next and ask for a third date .
They are fearful that in asking the girl for a third date too soon, they seem desperate and turn the girl off.
This has no basis in truth.
After a good second date , a girl wants you to contact her and ask her out again as soon as possible.
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It is natural that you would think back to those first few dates and believe that you came across as a person who is unlike who you really are, due to nerves.
There is a reason for it.
You are worried about coming off the wrong way, so you act a little bit more constrained.
The prevailing thought is that if you were to be yourself, being as funny and outgoing as you typically are, it would be too much for your date.
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Making Logical Sense Of Dating And Relationships
You were set up by friends or coworkers, or you met this person by chance and mutually decided to stop by a local place for a quick lunch or drink.
He enjoyed your company but realized that the connection he is looking for isn’t there.
He was taught and raised with this mindset. 
Don’t make the mistake of believing that you should wait for days or a week or more to contact the girl.
This does happen as two people go out on dates.