Category Archives: First & Second Dates

I Went Out On A First Date With This Guy, He Made Out He Was Really Into Me And Now He Is Being Really Distant. Why?

I Went Out On A First Date With This Guy, He Made Out He Was Really Into Me And Now He Is Being Really Distant. Why?His feelings may have changed since the date because he has now had time to reflect on the date.

You may have felt like he liked you during the date because he made out that he was really into you, but it doesn’t mean that he maintained that feeling after the date.

Sometimes a guy will reflect on a date after the fact.

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He Hasn’t Confirmed The Date?

He Hasn't Confirmed The Date?He may not be as interested in you as you would hope.

If he hasn’t confirmed the date, he may have totally forgotten that he had asked you on a date in recent past.

If this is a situation where you both spoke and he made a date but he hasn’t called you since and it has been a while since that conversation, there is a good chance that he doesn’t want to go on this date.

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I Like His Personality But I’m Not Physically Attracted. Should I Go On A Date With Him?

I Like His Personality But I'm Not Physically Attracted. Should I Go On A Date With Him?No.

If you like his personality but you aren’t physically attracted to him, you would find it difficult to want to be with him as a romantic partner.

In essence, you have been around him enough to know how you feel about him as a person. You do like his personality.

However, there is still that persistent issue about attraction. You are still not physically attracted to him.

It is unlikely that this will change simply because you go on a date with him.

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When Meeting Someone For The First Time, Would You Rather Go Get A Cup Of Coffee Or A Drink?

When Meeting Someone For The First Time, Would You Rather Go Get A Cup Of Coffee Or A Drink?A cup of coffee is typically the best place to start.

It enables the both of you to be clear-headed enough to communicate and thereby avoid getting yourselves into a situation that may embarrass you or ruin the date.

Getting a drink can happen later, after you have both gotten better acquainted and you feel a level of comfort with each other.

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Is It A Good Thing To Keep Texting After A First Date Or Annoying? How To Not Appear Too Needy Or Too Eager?

Is It A Good Thing To Keep Texting After A First Date Or Annoying? How To Not Appear Too Needy Or Too Eager?It honestly depends on how the both of you have been getting along.

If you really hit it off on that first date and this person is always willing to communicate, texting constantly after that first date may be fine and not annoying at all.

This is most appropriate when both parties are initiating the texts equally.

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