Category Archives: First & Second Dates

Is It A Good Thing To Keep Texting After A First Date Or Annoying? How To Not Appear Too Needy Or Too Eager?

When you hit it off on a first date, texting constantly after that first date is fine and not annoying at all, as long as there is a balanced give and take when texting.

Is It A Good Thing To Keep Texting After A First Date Or Annoying? How To Not Appear Too Needy Or Too Eager?In a situation where either party is texting equally, everything flows and there is no cause for worry about being needy or too eager.

The danger or problem that a lot of people come across in a scenario like this is when it is too one-sided.

If the majority of texts are initiated by you, you have to refrain from texting so much after the first date.

Irrespective of whether this person always responds when you text, it doesn’t mean that they are happy about the fact that you have been incessantly texting them since the first date.

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I Messed Up On The Third Date. Do I Have A Chance Of Salvaging This Courtship?

Although you believe you messed up on the third date, you mustn’t lose yourself in what you think you did or said wrong.

I Messed Up On The Third Date. Do I Have A Chance Of Salvaging This Courtship?You are so into this girl that you are worried that there was something you said or did wrong.

This are your insecurities messing with your mind.

When a person likes someone a whole lot, they become overly anxious.

They read too much into specific occurrences from the third date, and believe that those occurrences were bad when they weren’t.

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How To Make Her Fall In Love Or Feel Like A Queen At The First Date?

Be careful not to get yourself so caught up in an intention to make her fall in love, or feel like a queen, you overdo it at the first date .

How To Make Her Fall In Love Or Feel Like A Queen At The First Date?This is a common mistake that guys make.

They want so badly for the girl to like them on the first date that they try too hard.

They set up a date that is way too fancy or elaborate for a first date, and compound this by bringing flashy gifts, or deluging her with endless compliments.

Some of these compliments go as far as making underhanded proposals for marriage.

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Is Dating Time-Consuming Or Am I Overthinking All Of This?

Dating doesn’t have to be time-consuming if you are legitimately open to making the time.

Is Dating Time-Consuming Or Am I Overthinking All Of This?Take a moment to ask yourself about whether you are ready to date.

It’s tempting to tell yourself that you are when you aren’t.

The truth is, you are worried that about the logistics and implications of making the time for dates.

And this is due to a number of legitimate reasons.

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I Kinda Agreed To Go On A Date With A Classmate But Now I’m Freaking Out. What If It Was A Mistake And Things Get Awkward? What Should I Do?

Although you are freaking out, avoid getting consumed by what you think is going to happen at the date.

I Kinda Agreed To Go On A Date With A Classmate But Now I'm Freaking Out. What If It Was A Mistake And Things Get Awkward? What Should I Do?The danger of freaking out like this is that you force the date to go in the wrong direction.

You are so worried about how bad things could get that you don’t act normal.

This is when you aren’t being yourself.

You close yourself off to your date and consequently make your date uneasy.

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