If he hasn’t called you to confirm the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.
If he hasn’t mentioned the date since the last time you two spoke, he may no longer want to go on the date.
If he seems more engaged with other activities and hasn’t even tried to contact you since mentioning the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.
If he never gave you a specific date, time and location for the date, he may no longer want to go on the date as he probably wasn’t even serious about it in the first place.
These are all signs that you can look to in order to tell if he no longer wants to go on the date.
You can also look to what he has been doing lately or if he is even in town.
If he seems very preoccupied with his life and barely talks to you on a daily basis, he may no longer want to go on the date.
Also think about what I mentioned earlier.
If he had suggested a date but never actually set a date, time and location for it, he may have never been truly interested in going on a date with you in the first place.
Sometimes, a person can be so caught up in wanting to go on a date with someone else that they don’t realize that the other person merely suggested a date but never really set any solid plans.
This often happens when you really like a guy and you are just craving and hoping that he asks you out on a date.
When he finally says anything with the word “date” in it, you get so excited that you latch on to what he said without realizing that he never actually set up a real date.
Is that the situation you had?
Think back to when you both were talking about the date.
Did he actually make solid plans with you or did he say something like, “I’ll give you a call and let you know when.”
That is all very vague and isn’t necessarily leading to a date.
When a guy is convinced that he likes a girl and wants to take her out on a date, he is very precise with his offer.
He will give you a day, time and often a location or at least, a general idea of a location.
If you didn’t get any of this kind of treatment, there is a good chance that he was never serious about the date.
Also, you should determine how things have gone between the both of you since the date was mentioned.
Has he tried talking to you since that time?
Did he try calling you to find out how you were doing or how your day went or has it been the silent treatment ever since?
If it has been the silent treatment, the date may not even be at the forefront of his thoughts at all.
Thereby, he may no longer want to go on the date.
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