Even though you like this person, you don’t want a relationship with them, believing you aren’t of the frame of mind to take on the challenge of doing this.
Having observed relationships around you that failed, you are worried that if you were to get into a relationship with this person, it would be destined to fail too.
You are worried that in getting into a relationship with this person, they discover new elements about you that turns them off .
This leads to them leaving you.
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He is holding out on calling you his girlfriend , not confident that you have reached that level in the relationship.
You believe that you have reached that level.
You look at him as your boyfriend and wonder why he doesn’t feel the same.
Recognize that you are two separate individuals.
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In telling you that it is not a serious relationship, he has told you what he feels.
long-term dating prospect .
He is not in love with you nor does he care about you the way you do him.
He has told you how he feels.
This is when the true test comes.
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Normally, “being in a relationship” is more solid, as the parties involved are serious about the relationship , and are dating each other exclusively.
“Being in a relationship” equates to being in the boyfriend and girlfriend territory.
People who consider themselves to be in a relationship with someone look at that other person as their boyfriend or girlfriend.
This is the person that they want to perform activities with on a regular basis.
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Girls worry that the guy is desperate or overbearing when he gets serious real quick.
They are doubtful about the viability of a relationship with this guy and question whether it is prudent to date such a guy.
Girls don’t want to feel like they have become a guy’s life too soon.
They don’t want that level of responsibility.
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Making Logical Sense Of Dating And Relationships
You had a previous relationship that didn’t work out and you are worried about repeating the same mistakes.
To this end, he doesn’t see you as his girlfriend at this time.
In essence, he doesn’t see you as a 
They are not dating anyone else, having decided to focus on each other by putting out an effort to make the relationship work.
A guy who gets serious too quick forces the girl to doubt the guy’s self-worth and independence.