When you feel like you want to be exclusive in this relationship, it’s time to have the exclusive talk.

It comes down to how you feel and how far you have come.

Many people erroneously think that in not bringing up the exclusive talk, they are not showing pushiness or desperation.

They worry that bringing up a talk about exclusivity runs the risk of pushing their partner away.

In keeping your feelings hidden and hoping for the best, you are sending the wrong message to the other person.

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He wants a casual relationship when there is a consistent lack of meaningful communication.

The two of you communicate from time to time and the discussions are vastly frivolous.

This is how he is showing a reluctance to know you on a much deeper and meaningful level.

A guy who just wants a casual relationship won’t commit himself to get to know you better or communicate on a regular basis.

Additionally, there is a lack of preparation when it comes to meeting up on dates.

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Transitioning a friendship into a relationship calls for unambiguity and straightforwardness about what you are feeling for this person.

Procrastinating in informing this person about how you feel works against you.

It leads to doubt.

Negative thoughts dominate your consciousness, as you question everything.

You are so worried about how your friend reacts to informing them about your intention, you end up not saying anything.

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Are you feeling attached, confused, agitated, or in love, etc., with this friends with benefits?

Come to terms with your mixed feelings.

This is how you isolate your feelings and detect which ones are strongest.

You have to be completely clear about them.

Feeling a stronger sense of attachment than you think it warrants in a friends with benefits relationship reveals that you are on the path of falling in love with them.

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Identify the nature of your relationship with her, starting with being upfront with each other about it.

Have the both of you decided to date each other exclusively?

Not mutually deciding to date each other exclusively, frees up the girl you are dating, as she does have the option to date multiple men.

Remember that until the both of you decide to become exclusive in your relationship, she has the right to date whoever and as many people as she chooses.

Figure out what you want out of this relationship.

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