Your instincts are typically your true self trying to send you the message of what you must or must not do.
You shouldn’t ignore your instincts because they are typically trying to warn you based on experiences that may not be at the forefront of your thoughts but are now lodged in your subconscious.
Oftentimes, our instincts talk to us and try to warn us but we ignore them because our hearts are pushing us in the opposite direction.
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The best way to know if his words are sincere would be to observe his actions and his history.
If he has shown through his actions that he is serious about what he is saying, there is genuine cause to believe that he is being sincere.
Perhaps he is telling you about how much he cares about you.
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If she is in an exclusive relationship with you and is no longer on Tinder, you should continue seeing her.
If she is not in an exclusive relationship with you and is still on Tinder, you can continue seeing her or you can stop seeing her.
However, in the end, you have to understand the dynamics of a relationship.
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It is better to be trusting.
You don’t have to be naive.
Being naive would indicate that you are trying to make yourself believe in stuff that is not necessarily true or that you are willing to simply go for whatever your partner wants or desires.
A relationship is supposed to be fifty fifty. There has to be a give and take for a relationship to work.
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You can use what you learn about their past relationships.
When this person tells you about their past, get clues from that to help you determine if they have commitment issues.
How long were the previous romantic relationships?
How happy was this person in those relationships?
Does this person tend to tell you positive things about their previous relationships or negative things?
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The danger is in when you assume all of the guilt and wrongdoing.
When you want him to open up to you so badly and see you as trustworthy, you may start trying to take the blame for some or all of what has caused him hurt in the past.
You may not even be aware that you are doing this.
You may act as though you understand his feelings and want him to see that you care and can be trusted but not realize that you may be excusing his behavior.
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Your trust issues may stem from something that has consistently happened in past relationships, something that consistently happens in your current relationship or something that happened from your childhood.
In order to avoid these trust issues from affecting your relationship with your boyfriend, you have to figure out where they are coming from.
This is the first and most important task that you need to perform.
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Yes, it is possible to learn how to trust again.
If you have had relationships in the past that ended badly, you have to understand that these were all individual instances.
In other words, not every person is one and the same.
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You may have had a very bad experience with a guy that has led you to believe that you can never trust guys.
However, you do need to understand that there has got to be some accountability on your part as well.
Accountability is crucial.
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If this bothers you so much, you may want to wait before you get into an exclusive relationship with this guy.
If you are already in an exclusive relationship, you may want to let him know that you want to take things slow for now.
Here is the problem.
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