Category Archives: Rejection

Would My Self-Confidence Improve Through The Failure Of Rejection?

Would My Self-Confidence Improve Through The Failure Of Rejection?The first thing you need to do is avoid looking at rejection as failure.

This is the wrong attitude to have.

This is actually the kind of attitude that makes guys ultimately not go through with asking a girl out or get so anxious about asking the girl out that they completely mess it up when they do.

The problem with looking at rejection as failure is that you really don’t know what kind of girl that you are dealing with.

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Can A Guy Change His Mind About A Girl?

Can A Guy Change His Mind About A Girl?Guys typically don’t change their minds about a girl.

If he turned you down when you told him how you felt about him, it was because he wasn’t into you.

If he has told you that he only sees you as a friend or he has acted as such, he sees you as a friend and that is normally how it will stay.

Yes, there are certainly cases where a guy has changed his mind about a girl.

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Is There Anything Ethically Wrong With Rejecting A Girl Because I Don’t Find Her Pretty Or Beautiful Enough?

Is There Anything Ethically Wrong With Rejecting A Girl Because I Don't Find Her Pretty Or Beautiful Enough?There isn’t, as long as you are honest about the fact that you aren’t interested and you don’t lead her on.

You are attracted to who you are attracted to. You know what you like.

It would be much worse if you hadn’t rejected her and started dating her only to break her heart later because you chose to date her out of pity or convenience.

You are the judge of your own character and what it is that makes you attracted to a girl. She is in charge of her own feelings and how she looks at herself.

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Would A Girl Reject A Guy Who Has Less Weight Than Her?

Would A Girl Reject A Guy Who Has Less Weight Than Her?There are many girls who date guys who have less weight than they do or are skinny.

There is typically something about that guy that attracts them.

They may have a general preference for slender or skinny guys or they may love some other physical feature.

If you find yourself constantly being rejected by girls, it is not the fact that you have less weight than them that is the problem.

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She Just Got Out Of A Bad Relationship And Wants To Focus On Being Single For A While. Is She Just Kindly Rejecting Me?

She Just Got Out Of A Bad Relationship And Wants To Focus On Being Single For A While. Is She Just Kindly Rejecting Me?She is rejecting you.

Whether it is a kind way by which she is going about it or not is left to you to interpret.

You may want to look at it as kindly so that you don’t feel so bad about it.

You may want to get her off the hook.

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Is It Alright To Ask A Date For Feedback?

Is It Alright To Ask A Date For Feedback?You may be frustrated that your dates have been failing.

Now you wonder whether you should ask your prior dates for feedback.

Your intentions are honest and true.

You just want to understand where you are going wrong so that you can make improvements or adjustments for future dates with new prospects.

You are looking at this problem from your own personal experience and what seems perfectly logical to you.

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