When a guy is confused between two girls, one of the best things you can do is ask yourself whether it is worth your while being stuck in the middle and just how much worth you put on yourself.
If he is confused about you, he is clearly not sure about what he even wants.
The danger of allowing yourself to wait on a guy to make a decision on which girl he wants is that, he just may never get to that point.
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It depends on how you have been interacting with her so far.
It’s best to message her if you haven’t been communicating with her all that much or you haven’t been consistent with your communication thus far.
In the initial stages of dating, most girls would rather the guy do most of the initiating when it comes to communication just so that she knows that he is truly serious and also to feel as though she is desired.
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A girl who wants to see you again will often make it clear that she does.
She will make herself available for dates, thereby making it easy for you to set them up.
She may even drop hints in conversation with you by mentioning something she hasn’t done in a while but she would love to do soon.
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She may want to have it all without the commitment.
This is a dangerous position to allow yourself to be in.
You may feel that by the fact that she isn’t letting you go, she must be wanting to be in a relationship with you at some point.
You may start making yourself believe this more and more each day.
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By telling you that he wanted to be friends, he may have felt that way initially.
This guy may have been either dating someone else at the time or may have been more interested in someone else.
However, he may have understood that things may not work out with that person.
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Her feelings change because they are simply temporary emotions.
A lot of it is determined by how she feels that day, what her mood may be or how hopeful she is about something.
She may need to experience constant excitement to keep her feelings consistent.
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When he is giving you mixed signals, he may be playing a game by which he wants to be in full control of the interaction that he is having with you.
He will give you those mixed signals because he always wants to feel like he is at the head of this interaction and he can steer it in whichever direction he chooses.
He probably likes you, at least to some degree.
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He may not be breaking up with you but still giving you the cold shoulder because he is unsure of what to do with the relationship at this stage.
This typically happens when a guy isn’t that into who he is dating but still feels like there are some benefits to his date that he would still like to keep around.
When he gives you the cold shoulder, he is showing that he would really prefer doing something on his own at the time.
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Even though you believe that he was having a great time with you, he may not have.
It can be very easy to believe that you are having the same experience as someone else.
They seem to be having a good time after all.
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If he is constantly flipping back and forth between showing interest and a lack there of, he may be toying with your emotions.
There are certain guys who will do this because they enjoy the feeling of power that it gives them. They like it when they have this kind of effect on a girl.
They know that as long as they can get away with this, they can literally control where everything leads.
It is like a rush to them that keeps them on that constant high.
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