
At first, you didn’t think too much of it.
After all, he had these female friends long before he met you.
Nonetheless, after a while, it started getting to you.
A buildup of moments where you were hanging out with him, only to have it be interrupted with text messages or phone calls from several of his many female friends.
He struggles to ignore them even though he is supposed to be spending quality time with you.
The next thing you know, he is replying to their numerous texts and returning their phone calls as you wait on him discontented.
On top of this, several of these female friends follow him on social media.
They are liking, commenting, sharing, saving, bookmarking, and tagging his posts.
These female friends are so active in how they engage; you can’t help but get jealous whenever he is returning the favor by liking, commenting, sharing, saving, bookmarking, and tagging their posts too.
All of this has led to where you are now.
Although you like this guy and feel good about who he is as a person, you are now wondering whether he has one too many female friends.
Your instincts are accurate.
He does.
Sadly, when a guy has this many female friends, the law of large numbers alone dictates that a significant proportion of them are certain to be romantically interested in him.
These are female friends who fell into the friend zone with him, even though they wanted more than friendship on the outset.
Although she is in his friend zone, she continues to hedge her bets.
In other words, several of his many female friends have been waiting on the wings, biding their time, hopeful he eventually falls for them and dates them.
Women have a tendency to be attracted to the same kind of physical features on a man.
Since you already find him attractive, there is a very good chance that these female friends think the same.
They aren’t blind.
All you have to do is take note of how many women stare at him when you are out in public with him or how many female followers he has on social media to determine whether other women find him to be attractive.
Guys with this many female friends are susceptible to emotional infidelity.
This is where he frequently looks for emotional support from a female friend, especially at times he is at odds with you.
She comforts him with her kind words of reassurance, all the while making sure she includes trigger words and phrases that boost his sense of self-worth.
Oftentimes, all of this emotional support from a trusted female friend puts him on a path to emotional infidelity.
Not only is he receiving emotional support from her, but conversation also transitions to one of sexual intensity.
This is full-blown emotional infidelity.
After a while, all of this emotional support and sexual intensity leads to sexual attraction.
A sexual attraction that compels him to transition the platonic friendship he once had with her to one of sexual intimacy.
He is physically cheating on you.
All of this can be avoided if you just steer clear of dating men who have too many female friends.
