The most common look they gravitate to is that of long hair, slightly above average height at about 5’6″, and a lean figure.
Before anything else, a guy scans a girl with his eyes to see whether she has these physical features.
Only if she meets these physical markers or other physical markers that make up for an absence of these, such as her eyes, does he go for her by making the next move in opening a conversation with her.
Upon reading your bio, these men get the impression that you are someone who is carrying a lot of trauma from past negative experiences with matches or love interests.
After all, you are yet to have the exclusivity talk.
There is a good chance that just like you, he is still using the dating app and entertaining new matches.
Yes, you have been seeing each other, but unless there is a proper discussion about exclusivity, there is no reason for you to tell him that you are going on dates with others.
