When you love someone and they make you feel so good, you are immensely susceptible to diminishing genuinely critical issues such as that of financial instability in said partner so as to maintain the feeling.

You are filled with powerful feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine when you are in love.

It’s intoxicating to be besieged with these neurotransmitters that foster emotional attachment, euphoria, and infatuation all at the same time.

It’s as though you are floating and there isn’t anything in the world that is capable of ruining your day as long as you have this man in your life.

In the moment, it all feels like a fairy tale.

You have never been this happy.

Nonetheless, when all of these neurotransmitters settle down, the reality of a relationship with this financially unstable man is bound to become apparent.

He is financially unstable for a reason.

He has struggled to make ends meet financially due to a lack of responsibility for his own financial well-being.

The history is that of a man who has done just enough to keep himself alive or his head above water.

He didn’t take school all that seriously when he was a student.

His grades suffered for that.

Once he graduated, he took on a low-level job position that wasn’t lucrative.

This made it difficult for him not to have several outstanding bills at the end of every month.

Despite this monthly financial shortfall, he wasn’t motivated to improve his situation.

He simply bounced from low-paying job to low-paying job because it was safe.

It required little thought or effort from him.

All of which is representative of how poor of a student he was in school.

In his romantic life, he has left a trail of girlfriends who started where you are now.

They met him and fell in love with his charm and swagger.

His words were soothing and stimulating.

She fell for him quickly.

Ignoring the fact that he was financially unstable and focusing instead on how good he made her feel.

During courtship, she was the one who paid for most of the dates.

In time, these previous girlfriends all ran into the same problem, which was that of a charming boyfriend becoming a financial burden.

As she paid for dates and helped him out with more and more of his outstanding bills over time, he became increasingly financially dependent on her.

Thanks to this, he gets lazier.

He is barely sticking with any one job before quitting or getting fired.

He is constantly getting evicted from rental apartments for a lack of payment.

Next thing she realized, he was practically living at her place, and she was taking care of him as she would a young dependent child.

Inevitably, all these previous girlfriends became both mentally and financially exhausted with all of this responsibility.

The love has now been replaced with resentment, and her life is miserable.

This is the path you are on if you choose to stay with a financially unstable man.

No matter how much you love him, it’s only a matter of time before that love transitions to contempt as he uses you to finance his well-being.