Sadly, this isn’t a good partner.

Someone who is innately good treats everyone with kindness and respect unless given a justifiable reason not to be.

In your case, this is a guy who treats you great because you appeal to him physically and emotionally at the moment.

Since you trigger this sentiment in him, he pedestalizes you.

While a relationship is in the honeymoon phase, which lasts anywhere between 6 months to 2 years, he is prone to treating you great.

Since you are the source, he wants to maintain the sentiment.

Unfortunately, the fact that you have observed how terrible he is to others is a preview for what is imminent in your relationship with him.

All the good times and amazing treatment you have been getting from him during this honeymoon phase are assured to be temporary.

Since people on the outside don’t satiate his physical and emotional desires, they are irrelevant to him.

Treating them terribly doesn’t cost him anything.

Someone who treats others terribly is showing their true self.

He has no regard for the feelings of other people.

This means that it is only a matter of time before he disregards your feelings too and starts treating you terribly like he does to other people outside the relationship.

Once the honeymoon phase is over, his amazing treatment of you starts to change.

He takes you out less and is less communicative.

Says something judgmental about your physical appearance or character.

Is judgmental and critical of some of your family members and friends.

Is less likely to do you favors or help you out with certain day-to-day issues.

Soon, he is comparing you to other women he considers to be more attractive than you are.

He shows this whenever he is out in public with you and is blatantly looking at other women or is online and is unabashedly following the social media of an increasing number of attractive women.

Since he is no longer on an emotional high, his real personality starts showing up.

The real personality that was evident early on when you observed him being terrible with others.

You wanted to believe that you were special because he was treating you so good.

Instead of looking at this as a major red flag, you interpreted it as him being dominant and hard with the harsh outside world and yet gentle with you.

You interpreted it as how he shows protectiveness by not allowing anyone to think he is soft in the outside world.

This made you feel like you would be safe with him and well-protected.

Whenever he insulted others, you made yourself believe that the person deserved it even though all they did was accidentally bump into him as you were both on your way into a facility.

Regrettably, so many women misconstrue all of this kind of behavior as one that is uber-masculine and in charge, when in fact it is toxic.

No, you aren’t special.

The good treatment you receive from this type of man is only temporary.

His toxicity is guaranteed to surface once the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over.