Following lots of girls on social media and seeing them follow him back triggers a rush of dopamine through him.

It’s exciting to see an attractive girl he has followed return the favor by following him back.

When a girl acknowledges him for liking one of her posts, he gets yet another rush of dopamine.

He interprets this as a sign he is on her radar, which makes him feel seen.

Whenever she likes any of his posts, his excitement soars to a dangerously higher level.

The effect her attention has on his ego and self-esteem is profound.

Irrespective of him being an attractive man, he doesn’t receive anywhere near this level of interaction with attractive girls in his day-to-day life.

Most attractive girls he comes across in real life aren’t anywhere near this fluid.

There have been lots of times he thought a girl was showing an interest in him in the real world, only to have to deal with ensuing contradictory body language from her that left him confused.

To make things worse, he is rarely directly approached by any of these girls in the real world so as to cast out any confusion about her interest in him or lack thereof.

He doesn’t have that same issue with attractive girls on social media.

These girls are far more willing to show and reciprocate interest in him online.

When he follows her, she follows him back.

When he likes a post of hers, she acknowledges him and further rewards him by going to his social media and liking some of his posts.

On social media, his interactions with girls are easy and transparent, as opposed to what he has experienced in the real world.

Gone is the confusion of where a girl stands, as he has experienced in the real world.

On social media, she is an active participant in the interaction.

This is straightforward, which appeals to his logical approach to how he thinks.

Additionally, on social media, the concept of rejection is drastically muted.

If he follows a girl and she chooses to not follow him, it doesn’t feel anywhere near as personal as if he were to approach a girl at a club or bar in the real world and she rejects him.

A rejection from a girl in the real world feels so much more personal and heart-wrenching.

His self-esteem takes such a hit, he questions the prudence of ever approaching a girl again.

Whereas the effect of a girl who chooses not to accept a follow request on social media is nowhere near as impactful to his self-esteem.

He is already moving on to the next girl he finds on social media he deems attractive.

When this girl accepts his follow request, it’s as though the previous girl who didn’t accept his follow request never happened.

He has already forgotten her.

Furthermore, there is an immense volume of women on social media.

A volume he doesn’t experience in the real world.

Whenever he goes to a nightclub or bar in the real world, there are a finite number of girls.

Whereas when he is on social media, the number of girls he has an opportunity to follow is infinite.

This gives him the impression he has endless options of girls to choose from and follow.

Sadly, a guy with this disposition is a red flag and a poor choice for dating.

There is far too much competition you would have to face with all the other women he follows on social media.

These women are of endless supply, and their attention is intoxicating.

As a singular human being, you are incapable of competing with this volume of women who are easily accessible on social media.

Oftentimes, this is already a guy who has a history of short-lived relationships, most of which ended on account of his behavior on social media and its influence.

With so much exposure to a seemingly endless number of girls on social media, the opportunity to cheat is rife.

All it takes is an altercation with you, and he is quickly logging into his social media to get sympathy and comforting words from these girls.

With him, it’s not only the act of physical cheating with these girls you would have to worry about.

He is also susceptible to developing emotional bonds with these girls.

Which means there is bound to be emotional cheating.

With the constant threat of either physical or emotional cheating with any of the infinite number of girls he is exposed to on social media, it would be next to impossible to maintain a faithful long-term relationship with him.