What matters most is who aligns with all the critical factors required for a long-term relationship to work.

These are critical factors such as her professional, socio-economic, religious, educational, and cultural bona fides.

Since men are highly stimulated by what they see, they often make the mistake of picking the pretty girl based on her physical looks.

In doing this, he has ignored that she doesn’t align with him across multiple critical factors but rather is caught up on how she resembles a supermodel.

When you are too focused on how the girl looks on the outside without taking all the other critical factors into account, you are setting yourself up for bitter failure in a relationship with her.

These critical factors cannot be ignored, as they have to be aligned with yours.

Additionally, stop being so caught up with what you see in the present moment.

Beauty fades.

The pretty face you see today will naturally and biologically deteriorate.

This is absolutely inevitable.

What then?

When you choose to pick a pretty girl based on her looks alone, you are choosing something that won’t last.

Since she is deficient in all the other critical factors, not only will the deterioration of her pretty face affect you, but it will affect her too.

If she is a pretty girl who has always coasted on her looks and has never bothered to grow in other areas of her life, she will struggle losing the one thing she has relied on her entire life.

Her pretty face.

Throughout her life, her pretty face gave her easy access to certain benefits she didn’t have to put any real work into achieving, whether it be socially or economically.

Now that you are in a relationship with her and her beauty is fading, her self-confidence is taking a massive hit.

Oftentimes, this leads to her going through emotional bitterness, as the one thing she has relied on her entire life to get ahead in life and feel good about herself is disappearing from view.

The emotional bitterness that develops from this is certain to be taken out on you.

So, not only will you have to grapple with her pretty face deteriorating with time, but also her emotional wrath as she loses her single source of self-confidence.

Needless to say, how you go about picking a relationship partner has to be based on other factors besides how pretty the person is.

To keep it real, an average-looking girl isn’t necessarily a saint either.

An average-looking girl could have an apprehensive disposition.

This would be a girl who has lived her whole life repeatedly seeing lots of pretty girls get special treatment from society at large without having to put in the work.

Meanwhile, she had to work hard to build herself up socially, economically, etc.

Picking an average-looking girl who is apprehensive about life isn’t a smart pick either, even if she aligns with several of the critical factors necessary to make a long-term relationship work.

Her temperament is just as important as the fact she is professionally, socially, economically, religiously, educationally, and culturally aligned with you.

In the end, you will know who to pick when you have done the work and spent the time to court and vet the girl.

Doing this exposes you to everything about her that you require so as to make the right decision on whether she is a good candidate for a long-term relationship or not.