There have been several men who were curious about hitting on you.

He watched you move about and pondered the prospect of approaching and asking you out.

Nevertheless, like so many guys before him, he chose not to approach you.

He didn’t hit on you.

Instead, he went about his business.

The thing is, these occurrences happen all the time in your everyday life.

You don’t realize just how many men want to hit on you on a daily basis.

These men continue to make the decision not to hit on you because your body language isn’t open and inviting.

You never look approachable.

Most of the time, you have a scowl on your face or your face is buried in your phone.

All of this makes it so much harder for a man to approach you.

He sees you.

Finds you attractive.

He is thinking about hitting on you, but he is struggling to establish eye contact with you.

Given that your head is down, fixated on your smartphone, establishing eye contact with you is impossible.

When you do look up occasionally, you never make eye contact with any man long enough for him to deem that a sign of interest.

Furthermore, you are constantly on the move, incapable of staying still for any particular length of time.

All of this behavior makes it impossible for these men to approach and hit on you.

There is so much closed-off, uninviting body language.

You are making it difficult for him to make a move on you because your body language is so full of “do not approach me” vibes.

So, your issue has nothing to do with you not being capable of finding a date.

You most certainly can.

Your issue is that you are making it impossible for men to approach you, given how closed-off and uninviting your body language is.

Since men in society are traditionally burdened with having to approach women of romantic interest and not the other way around, they want to be as certain as possible that a woman is open to being approached.

To this end, he looks for signals from her.

Signals that indicate she is attracted to him and wants him to approach.

When your body language is closed-off and uninviting, it makes it impossible for him to make an approach.

He is terrified of being rejected and wants to avoid it at all costs.

When you have closed-off, uninviting body language, it instantly sends the subliminal message that you don’t want to be approached or hit on, in spite of the fact you actually want it.

By changing your everyday body language, you change your dating issues.

Simply making eye contact and smiling at a guy you think attractive can change your whole dating life.

You could literally find a date tomorrow if you demonstrate better body language.

Besides having open and inviting body language, develop a robust social circle around you.

Having a greater number of people in your social circle makes it that much easier to find a date.

Although it feels safe and comfortable to maintain your current network of friends, expanding it gives you more exposure to people.

Make new friends by joining new interest groups, whether they be professional, recreational, educational, etc.

As long as you maintain a pleasant attitude, it’s inevitable someone in this new group of friends will take a liking to you and ask you out on a date.