Avoidant behavior, where he demonstrates a complete reluctance to be in social situations and avoids emotional closeness, is where the big red flag exists.

Some guys who have 0 friends are constantly afraid of putting themselves in vulnerable situations where they are judged or criticized by people.

Unfortunately, prior to anything socially uncomfortable happening, he is already thinking that everyone is out to take advantage of him, and this compels him to develop a rigid self-defense mentality.

That’s where the complete reluctance to be in social situations and the avoidance of emotional closeness become so apparent.

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Staying single for too long leads to established routines that become a major part of who you are and how you go about your day.

Everything from how your closet is arranged to where you put specific items in your fridge is already a part of your everyday routine.

Even the temperature you keep your apartment at has already been long since established.

The tasks you do outside of the home are preset.

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Sometimes, you don’t really know what person works best for you.

This often requires a period of time where you get to grow as a person as you date so as to ultimately discover who you are and what type of partner works best.

During this growth period, you will go out on dates with men who don’t pan out.

Some of these men end up working out with other girls they go out with in the future.

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As much as the thought of dating someone solely for how they make you feel sounds romantic, it doesn’t work in reality.

Yes, you should want to date someone that makes you feel good.

But when you are thinking about someone to date for the long term, that person’s income level is highly important.

It gives you insight into the person’s relationship with money and their ambition.

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Being picky and having high standards is the most damaging when you are unrealistic about your own value in the dating landscape.

This is where people have too high of an opinion of themselves.

They develop such a high sense of self that they expect the same unrealistic qualities in a significant other.

Today, we live in a politically correct world where people are constantly being told that they are of high value in physical appearance, character, and accomplishments.

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