Since most guys are chubby or overweight, they don’t have a problem dating a chubby girl.

Nevertheless, there is a significant population of fit men who have a problem dating a chubby girl but mislead her into thinking they don’t.

These are men who are solely looking for sex with a chubby girl.

Unfortunately, a guy who has a problem dating a chubby girl but is looking to use her for sex isn’t going to be kind enough to tell her his true intentions.

The first step in filtering out a guy with this selfish motivation is to look into his dating history.

A guy with a history of healthy long-term relationships with chubby girls is a good sign that he isn’t the type to use a chubby girl solely for sex.

Sadly, there are plenty of fit guys out there who see a chubby girl as an easy target.

He makes the assumption that she doesn’t have a lot of options for dates.

So, he pretends, convincing her that he likes her wholeheartedly.

As a chubby girl, you fall for his act.

After all, he is giving you attention that you aren’t used to getting from fit guys.

Nevertheless, he has ulterior motives.

He wants a relatively quick and easy lay.

If he enjoys the sex enough, he keeps the chubby girl around for a period of time longer until he finds a fit girl he is truly attracted to.

Meanwhile, as you are physically intimate with him, you are thinking a special loving bond is being nurtured.

But all he is doing is biding his time while using you to satisfy his sexual needs.

Sadly, lots of chubby girls fall into the trap of falling in love with a guy like this.

Being that he is fit and charming, she can’t believe her luck in finding such a guy who apparently sees her for who she uniquely is as a person.

The compliments he showers her with stick with her, making for some vivid and heartwarming dreams when she falls asleep at night.

It’s not only the compliments that make her fall for him deeply.

He talks about a future of adventure, travel, and family.

He knows the words to use to make her feel like he genuinely cares about her as a person.

But these words are all lies.

As a chubby girl, you can easily become a target of men like this.

These are fit men who are single and looking for an easy target to fill the time until they find a future girlfriend who is fit.

It’s important that you never allow yourself to get caught up in the words you are hearing from a guy like this.

He has practice doing this.

You aren’t the first chubby girl he would be tricking into falling for him.

He knows the right words to use to get you emotionally hooked on him.

Rather than listening to his words, watch his actions.

As aforementioned, his dating history is a huge indicator of his sincerity.

If he has a history of healthy long-term relationships with chubby girls, he is for real.

Additionally, a guy who doesn’t have a problem dating a chubby girl won’t be reluctant to take her out on dates and introduce her to his friends and family.

He is proud of having you as his girlfriend and keeps talking you up to everyone he knows.

On the contrary, a guy who has a problem with dating a chubby girl doesn’t have a history of healthy long-term relationships with chubby girls.

Instead, when you investigate his dating history, he has primarily had long-term relationships with fit or skinny girls.

Additionally, he doesn’t take you out on dates nor introduce you to his friends and family.

You are in essence his dirty little secret.

His friends and family have no knowledge of you, and if some of them do, he only describes you as a friend and nothing more.