What To Do When You’re Tempted To Text The Guy Who Never Called You When He Said He Would?

A guy that barely knows you and hasn’t had the opportunity to build rapport with you, is less likely to keep his word to call you.

What To Do When You're Tempted To Text The Guy Who Never Called You When He Said He Would?Since you are tempted to text this guy, go on and do it.

A guy isn’t going to do what he said he was going to do, all the time.

Since this is bugging you this much, start a conversation with him by texting him.

Don’t send him a generic text that doesn’t lead anywhere.

Avoid texting him something like, “Hi, what’s up?”

This is too generic.

You aren’t giving him a reason to respond.

Send a text that is open-ended so that he is enticed to respond.

If you were to send a text that reads something like, “When was the last time you went on a road trip?”, you are asking an open-ended question.

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His answer gives you an opening to get into a robust conversation.

Text him with intention.

The idea is to get him to start a conversation with you.

In sending him a generic text that doesn’t lead anywhere, he glances at it and ignores it.

Even if he responds, it is a generic response that doesn’t have much excitement to it.

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When you respond to him, he isn’t enticed to reply back, as it’s too much effort.

The conversation fizzles out quickly.

Remember that he hasn’t had the chance to establish an emotional connection with you yet.

He is in the early stages of getting to know you.

Your intention should be to give yourself the best opportunity for not just a response, but a well-thought out response that could lead to further discussion.

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Again, should you decide to send the text, focus on initiating an open-ended discussion by asking an open-ended question.

Don’t take the fact that he didn’t call you when he said he would personally.

It isn’t uncommon for a guy to do this.

Sometimes, he is busy and forgets to do it.

A reminder is required.

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Other times, he wasn’t sure about the girl.

He liked her, but wasn’t sure whether she felt likewise.

To avoid an awkward moment or pursuing something that isn’t there, he chose not to call.

It doesn’t mean that he isn’t interested.

He is hoping that the girl calls or texts him, as this confirms that her interest in him is mutual.

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There are guys who have a strong interest in a girl in the moment, as he is talking to her, but once that moment is over, the interest suddenly dissipates.

In other words, the conversation was great, but once he was done with it, the feeling was lost.

Oftentimes, this occurs right after the conversation.

He wasn’t aware that he was going to react this way, until it happened.

The spark was lost, and he realized that he didn’t have the desire to call.

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You are better off texting and leaving it at that so as to get this over and done with.

If he responds, great.

If he doesn’t, you have your answer and you can move on.

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