Be careful not to get yourself so caught up in an intention to make her fall in love, or feel like a queen, you overdo it at the first date .

This is a common mistake that guys make.

They want so badly for the girl to like them on the first date that they try too hard.

They set up a date that is way too fancy or elaborate for a first date, and compound this by bringing flashy gifts, or deluging her with endless compliments.

Some of these compliments go as far as making underhanded proposals for marriage.

I am not kidding.

Listen, this girl wants you to be respectful to her.

That is certain.

She wants to have a reason to like you.

If you were to do too much for her on the first date, you run the risk that she thinks you are all about style and no substance.

You have led her to believe that you are too much of a pushover.

This is not attractive to girls.

She wants to feel an air of mystery and excitement over you.

If you were to bring it all on that first date before you have had a chance to get to know her better, you have let the air out of the tire so to speak.

What else will she have to look forward to?

More elaborate and over-the-top dates?

Do you really think that is what she wants?

It isn’t.

She wants you to be someone she can easily see herself with as a partner.

To get there, the intrigue to keep getting to know you has to persist throughout courtship.

Being pursued is a great feeling, but she never wants it to feel forced.

This reduces the courtship to a hassle, and she would struggle to get escited about going out on future dates with you.

A strategy to make her fall in love or feel like a queen at the first date is never a good idea.

Instead, work on making her feel safe.

Make her curious about you, so that she is asking herself questions about what you are all about.

This leads to her going back memory lane in her mind, as far as how she compares you to men she has dated in the past.

If she can’t draw too many parallels with her past relationships, this sets you apart.

You are different enough to make her want more, but not so different that she can’t find avenues to relate to your personality or character.

Fomenting these feelings in her is the right strategy.

This is what keeps her coming back for date two, three, and beyond.

When your entire focus is to make her fall in love or feel like a queen at the first date, you risk boring her to tears by the end of it.

There is no mystery, question, or story, left.

You have given it all to her in one showing and have tried way too hard to impress her.

This gives her the impression that you are so deficient in certain areas of your life, you are desperately trying to make her like you to compensate.

You do this and it is unlikely you hear from her again, or get a second date.