In wanting to date, but having kids, organize your life and time around making both work.
Find a balance.
It is doable.
The mistake that so many people make in your situation is believe that they can’t make it work.
As a result, they focus on one over the other, having convinced themselves that it cannot be done.
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When your boyfriend isn’t much of a family person with his own family, exhibiting the same behavior with your family is almost inevitable.
His disinterest in having a relationship with your family has nothing to do with your family in general.
It stems from his own experiences with his family and how he handles his own family.
When he is not close with his own family and avoids them, he has a higher inclination to avoid getting close to having a relationship with your family.
In a context where he isn’t close to his own family, find out why.
The danger of dating someone who has a baby when you aren’t ready, or unsure, is that you end up ruining the relationship while hurting yourself psychologically.
Know what your level of tolerance is and what you can handle.
Stubbornly telling yourself that you like this person and intend to date them irrespective of the baby, shows that you haven’t thought things through.
You have to be forthright with yourself.
Don’t let how much you like this person cloud your judgment on what you should do next.
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Your mom is chasing off your girlfriends, out of a fear that she is about to lose you to them.
There is a jealous side to her that believes each and every girl you have had as a girlfriend has never been good enough for her son.
She justifies what she is doing by using that reasoning as her defense.
She forces herself to believe that the only reason why she chases your girlfriends away stems from wanting the best for you, and these girlfriends are far from it.
Well, this is where you have to step in and stand up for yourself.
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He doesn’t want to introduce you to his family, worried that his family wouldn’t approve of you.
There is something about your character or background that makes him uneasy.
It has left him hesitant to introduce you to his family.
Think back to your conversations with him.
Has he brought up some fears about you?