He may have meant that he just wants to take some time with you and get to know you better before he makes any definitive decisions on what he thinks you are to him.
In other words, he doesn’t want to make a decision on what he thinks you are to him prematurely.
He would typically do this because he is unsure as well, in his own mind, about what you are to him.
If he is into you, he will try to spend time with you and take you out on dates.
He will typically be invested in getting to know you and what you are about.
He would be patient with you and would maintain a consistent channel of communication with you.
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He may like you if he tends to look at you often and smile at you.
If he tends to follow this up with conversation as well and possibly flirting, this is even a stronger sign that he likes you.
On the other hand, he may be looking at you from time to time but not smiling.
He typically sees you as a really good friend that he is comfortable being around.
One of the best ways to know this for certain is to observe him around his other male friends.
You should listen for what he tends to call them.
If you notice that he also tends to call his male friends “bro” or “fam,” there is a good chance that he is putting you in the friendship category.
You should also observe his body language around you.
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Your friend may be letting you know that he cares about you deeply as a friend.
He is not necessarily insinuating that he is “in love” with you.
There is a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
If this is a friend that you have had for a while, he may feel a sisterly connection to you that makes him feel a deep sense of love and appreciation for you.
When he isn’t trying to spend quality time with you like he used to, he is not into you anymore.
You will notice that he will give excuses whenever it is time to do something with you. He may set it up at first but will tend to cancel later on or just conveniently forget that he had made plans with you.
When you notice this kind of behavior, he is showing that he is not trying to be around you as he may have other activities that he would rather be spending his time doing.
He will lose interest when he gets bored and feels like he knows enough about you to judge how the relationship is going to go.
When he can predict the course of where this interaction will go, he may feel like it is too predictable.
This may make him feel like there is no reason to keep trying.
If he doesn’t take the time to truly get to know you as a person, he may be waiting for something better.
When you notice that the majority of the time that you both hang out, he just wants to keep things simple and only have fun, he may not see you as someone that he wants to get to know on a deeper level.
A guy like this will typically not have you as a priority in his life. He may make and break dates quite easily.
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If you have noticed that your friend tends to want to be with you on a one on one basis quite often, they may want you.
It is important to observe their body language when they are with you in these one on one situations.
Does your friend touch you from time to time and linger?
Your friend may place a hand on your arm and linger for a while before taking it off.
They may also stay within your personal space so that there isn’t much room between the both of you.
Yes.
When a guy isn’t giving you his time, you are not that important to him.
He may even have the time.
However, he is simply not willing to share that time with you.
He may prefer spending that time being with his friends, talking to other girls or playing video games.
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