As long as he knows that the girl is of virtue, he is more so concerned that the girl is naively thinking that she has guy friends who are genuinely interested in a platonic relationship with her when their genuine motivation is to sleep with her.
A guy knows how other guys think.
He knows that guys have a tendency to befriend girls they want to sleep with.
The reality is that if you were to offer any one of your single guy friends a hookup encounter with you, none of them would hesitate to take you up on your offer.
Growing up in a household where there was anger and toxic behavior often shown by someone older or in authority, such as a parent, has molded who you have become as a person.
Since you were surrounded by all of this anger and toxic behavior while growing up, you became accustomed to it.
Anger and toxic behavior are familiar to you.
As a result, as an adult, you unconsciously attract men who have the same anger issues and toxic behavior you witnessed from authority figures you grew up around.
When you are on dating apps or social media, you are more accessible to these guys.
It’s easier for him to compliment you when all he has to do is send a like or send a direct message (DM).
Guys are far more comfortable showing interest in a girl they see online than they are showing interest in a girl they see in real life.
It’s frustrating when you see that you get quite a bit of attention from men through online platforms such as dating apps, social media, and niche communities, but you don’t get anywhere near this kind of attention when you are waiting in line at a store, walking through a mall, hanging out with your friends at a party or restaurant, etc.
A girl who hasn’t been with a lot of guys gives him the impression that she is less likely to cheat on him if they were to get into a relationship.
Plus, it makes him feel special that he is one of only a very few men who have been intimate with the girl.
The guy who deems it a turnoff if a girl hasn’t been with a lot of guys is usually the one who is emotionally unavailable and looking for a quick hookup.
