There is an exasperation that you are experiencing over the thought of using dating apps, bars, or clubs to meet guys.
You have already tried these, and the outcomes have not been favorable.
The dating apps seem to be filled with men who aren’t taking dating seriously and only want to flirt, exchange nude photos, or hook up.
The bars and clubs aren’t all that different.
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There is a reason why you aren’t attracted to nice guys.
No matter how much you have attempted to make yourself be attracted to a nice guy, it has failed.
He checked all the proverbial boxes in what a woman would want in a partner.
He was kind, sweet, supportive, caring, and respectful towards you.
An attractive woman has a head start in what a man deems her to be like as a person.
Her attractiveness instantly causes him to deem her perfect.
Not only on the outside, but on the inside too.
He surmises that her outer attractiveness equates to her inner attractiveness.
The places you hang out to find or attract men aren’t appropriate.
There aren’t a bunch of good men in these places.
Whether these are bars, nightclubs, or pool parties, frequenting these locations is disadvantageous.
Good men are hard to find in these locations.
In continuing to attend the same social hangouts, you are bound to keep attracting the same kind of men.
Your nightlife is too habitual.
It’s human nature to attend the same social hangouts, given that we are already familiar with them, and there is a degree of comfort that comes with that.
This sameness is hurting any chance you have to change who you attract.