Guys are often more concerned with a girl’s past than her future.

Especially when it comes to a woman he is considering as a long-term partner.

He wants to have a good idea of whether she is someone he can trust.

This is where he is concerned about her hookup history.

Most guys would rather not commit long-term to a woman who has a promiscuous past.

A girl with a promiscuous past gives him the impression that he would not be able to trust her, as she just might cheat on him behind his back.

This means that his reputation will take a hit.

Whenever he is out and about in public with her, he gets bad looks from other men she has slept with in the past.

A guy is prideful, especially with the woman he chooses to be his life partner.

His reputation and respect from his peers and people at large are a big deal.

When he is the laughing stock of his social circle or community at large based on the promiscuous nature of his new girlfriend, it affects his pride and sense of self-worth.

It is a massive deal-breaker if the woman he is dating has a promiscuous past to such an extent that she is notoriously well-known among his peers and community as the woman who slept around.

A girl who has a past where she is bad with money is also a deal-breaker.

It’s not that he expects her to be rich or have a stock portfolio, but he doesn’t want her to be irresponsible with money.

A girl who is irresponsible with money would be a burden on him.

In the event he marries her, he would be taking on her immense debt.

This immense debt alone can cause a lot of friction and stress in the relationship.

It gets worse when she hasn’t learned from a lifetime of financial irresponsibility.

Given how her past was filled with financial irresponsibility, she lacks the discipline to watch her spending as his partner in the present.

This is where she continues to go to the department stores, beauty salons, and health spas, paying for products and services she doesn’t need, which only adds that much more debt to what she came into the relationship with.

A girl who has no financial responsibility and discipline is a burden to a financially responsible guy, making such behavior a deal-breaker for him.

Additionally, a girl’s past becomes a major deal-breaker when she has an ex-boyfriend who is still a part of her life.

Even though you believe he is only a platonic friend, lots of guys won’t look at it that way when they see text messages on your phone from him.

For a lot of guys, a woman who has an ex-boyfriend she continues to talk to and go out to meet for hangouts is a massive deal-breaker.

He worries that you haven’t gotten over your ex-boyfriend and that he hasn’t gotten over you too.

Which means the potential of infidelity with said ex-boyfriend is a constant threat.