Since human beings are visually stimulated when it comes to who they would be attracted to, they assume that an attractive person will have it easier with dating.

When they see you, there is an instant feeling that you have had a much easier time dating than they have, given that they believe you are more attractive than they are.

Human beings are prone to comparing themselves with someone else.

It is a natural reaction.

The first thing they see is your physical appearance.

Which means they get to make a fast judgment on you and what your life must be like.

Since they already have a dating history by the time they see you, they have life experience as their teacher.

They have been through the heartaches of not being able to win over the person they were attracted to.

Lots of them have harsh memories about being rejected or overlooked by said person.

Some went through the heartbreak of being in friendships with someone they were attracted to, only to have that person eventually tell them that they only see them as a friend.

Rejection and heartbreak at the hands of someone they found attractive is where many of these people have a common thread.

Since you are attractive, they assume that you are the one who tends to do the rejecting or breaking of hearts, given that this has been what they have experienced themselves as admirers who didn’t get the person they adored.

Ergo, it isn’t just the attractiveness of your outward appearance that makes people assume that you’ll have an easier time dating; it’s also their life experience that gives them that assumption.

In addition, they see the effect you have on other people wherever you go.

They see how other people look at you with admiration and desire.

Whenever they are around you, they observe how everyone else behaves.

The wide eyes, gaping mouths, and instinctual smiles.

They can see with their own eyes that people all around you are enamored by your attractiveness.

When they see how other people behave with unadulterated admiration upon seeing you, they can’t help but assume that you’ll have an easier time dating.

You are getting ogled by every passerby, whether they be average-looking or attractive like yourself.

Upon observing the effect you have on those in your vicinity, people simply assume you’ll have an easier time dating because you can attract just about everyone across the board on every level of looks.

These people can only wish they had this kind of effect on other people.

If that was their reality, they would literally have their pick of the litter.

That said, your own reality is that your dating life hasn’t been anywhere near as easy as people assume it is.

This doesn’t mean you are condemned to a life of disappointment with dating.

Sometimes, all it requires is that you reevaluate what matters most to you in the qualities you want in a potential mate.

A potential mate doesn’t have to check every box.

We are all human beings, and as such, there is no perfect person.

Getting rid of some unnecessary or redundant requirements you expect in a potential mate could be the difference between staying single and finding someone compatible with you.