
Dating apps have provided an overwhelmingly tempting platform to match with guys for the express purpose of using them for free food.
You have already been on several foodie calls with guys you matched with on dating apps.
A foodie call is when someone pretends to be romantically interested in someone else so as to get a free meal out of them.
In and of itself, this is exploitation of another human being, which is inherently wrong.
You are not the only girl who partakes in foodie calls either.
Ever since the advent of dating apps, foodie calls have become extremely popular among women.
Considering there are far more men on dating apps than there are women, the opportunity for said women to match with a seemingly limitless number of men to use for foodie calls is never-ending.
When it is this easy to find men for foodie calls, it is literally feasible to line up a different man for a foodie call every single day of the week.
And this behavior isn’t relegated to younger broke women.
Women of all ages on dating apps, especially those in their mid-twenties to mid-forties, have been known to go on foodie calls with men they match with on dating apps who they aren’t romantically interested in.
Studies have shown that the women who do foodie calls have traits like narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy, all of which can be linked to deceptive or exploitative behavior.
Think about other areas of your life.
Are there other areas where you show deceptive or exploitative behavior?
Is it relatively easy for you to lie or manipulate people you come across in life, including those that are close to you?
Are you prone to deceptive behavior where you are constantly giving people the wrong impression of who you genuinely are?
It’s one thing to do a foodie call and never do it again because you truly felt remorse after getting a free meal and subsequently ghosting the guy.
This shows that you have empathy, having realized that you misled the guy and took advantage of him.
With such guilt, you refrain from doing foodie calls ever again.
On the contrary, it’s another thing entirely if you have religiously done foodie calls to such an extent you have lost count of how many men you have gotten a free breakfast, lunch, or dinner out of.
When it is this consistent and intense, you have a deep level of psychopathy.
Which means your personality has a profound lack of empathy, remorse, or guilt.
This is why it is so easy for you to keep doing foodie calls and laugh about it afterward with your girlfriends as you proceed to block the guy and never speak to him again.
A person with psychopathy often shows a high level of manipulativeness and grandiosity, even though they seem completely normal and rational in how they present themselves to others on the outside.
If you genuinely aspire to meet a lifelong partner one day whom you want to marry, have children with, and live the rest of your life with, you have to resolve all of these negative character traits.
Without doing so, any relationship you have with a future boyfriend or spouse will be fraught with deception and manipulation.
This means that there won’t be a healthy foundation of trust, which makes for an unstable relationship that is destined to fail.
