The Guy I Like Is Ghosting Me

The Guy I Like Is Ghosting Me

Although the conversations with him have been fun and invigorating, he has lost interest.

The truth is, his interest was never piqued to begin with.

He liked talking to you to help kill boredom and get a boost to his ego.

Knowing that you liked him made him feel good about himself, and he wanted to bask in it for a while.

Nonetheless, he has since gotten his fill of your attention and is no longer all that interested in continuing to talk to you.

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This is why he has ended up ghosting you.

As much as you like him, he is not anywhere close to that level of sentiment for you.

This was all about him, sadly.

Since he was never really interested in you to begin with, it wasn’t difficult for him to ghost you.

He has reached a point where he wants to redirect his attention and efforts.

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Oftentimes, this means there is a new woman to do this with.

This is a woman who fits what he typically likes in a woman physically and intellectually.

Even though it seemed like the two of you were really getting along before he ghosted you, it doesn’t mean that you fit what he requires in a potential romantic interest.

Yes, there were some areas where you met a requirement in looks or personality, but you didn’t meet them all.

He is far more motivated to court a girl who checks all the boxes of what he is looking for in a potential partner.

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Regardless of the fact he has ghosted you, he won’t be gone forever.

A guy who ghosts typically comes back.

It could be weeks, months, or in some cases, years later.

All of a sudden, you receive a text message from him or a phone call or a message on social media.

Out of nowhere, the guy you like who ghosted you a while back is suddenly trying to reconnect with you.

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This happens to victims of ghosting quite often.

Oftentimes, it’s for the same reasons why he chose to talk to you all that while ago.

He is bored and wants an ego boost.

There is no other girl that interests him at the moment, or the girl he actually likes isn’t available to him.

So, he thinks about girls from his past he had a good time interacting with.

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This is where you come to mind.

He remembers that he had some fun conversations with you.

To this end, he figures you would be someone who can kill his current boredom and boost his ego.

He reaches out to you.

If you respond to him, you open the door to yet another period of interaction that is bound to end up where the last one did.

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With him getting bored again and ultimately ghosting you.

Imagine putting your time and energy into this guy all over again, only to have him ghost you once again.

It wouldn’t be worth it.

In spite of how much you like him, take a hint.

He doesn’t like you.

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Accepting this enables you to avoid giving this guy any more of your precious energy.

Block him on all platforms and move on.