
An attractive person who represents the archetype of what you find attractive in a potential partner is intoxicating.
It’s easy to get lost in his mesmerizing looks.
The number of times you have had dreams of a person that looks like him has been countless.
And now, you have met him in the flesh.
Sometimes, it doesn’t feel real when you are seated across from him or hanging out with him.
All of that being said, he has zero personality.
There is nothing about his personality that resonates with you.
In moments of discussion where a common interest was established, he has struggled to foster a connection.
He simply doesn’t know how to make a conversation vibrant, regardless of any common interests you both share.
Inevitably, you are the one who has had to carry the burden of keeping conversations going and coming up with new ones.
As if that wasn’t enough, you are the one who has been burdened with maintaining the energy of these conversations by cracking jokes.
He isn’t that smart either.
Simple concepts seem to go right over his head, so much so that you have had to talk to him like you would a fourth-grader just to get him to understand certain concepts.
Yet, he is so gorgeous.
Many a time, you have gotten lost staring into the ocean-like blueness of his eyes.
Yes, there is no doubt that you are physically attracted to him.
However, he has zero personality, and this has you questioning whether you should date him.
To determine this, ask yourself about what you are looking for.
Are you looking to date someone short-term or long-term?
If you are looking for short-term dating, there is no harm in dating him.
After all, you would be fully aware that this would be entirely all about short-term fun.
If this is someone you don’t see in your long-term future, dating him ushers a surge of excitement into your life, creating a bit of a break from the monotony.
At this stage in your life, having a little bit of a romp with an attractive person is akin to living out a storyline in your very own raunchy novella.
It’s important that you are straightforward with him about your intentions.
As long as he is fully aware of your intentions and acquiesces, no one gets hurt or wastes their time.
On the other hand, if you are looking for a long-term relationship, you shouldn’t date him.
Even though you are completely taken by how attractive he is, this feeling is bound to wear off.
His attractiveness isn’t enough to keep you intrigued and invigorated by him over the long term.
Eventually, his attractiveness becomes monotonous.
Without a personality, there is no emotional foundation to fall back on when this happens.
This means that you soon become resentful of this reality, as the lack of intellectual and substantive conversation in the relationship creates a formidable void.
A void that fosters bitter arguments, which inevitably lead to a breakup.
Needless to say, pursuing a long-term relationship with an attractive person with zero personality is a nonstarter.
Date him for short-term fun, but nothing more.
