Unfortunately, your friend with benefits isn’t on the same page as you are emotionally.

You can see yourself as his girlfriend.

This means that you have developed feelings for your friend with benefits.

It’s no longer enough for you to merely have sex with him.

You want to hear him talk to you about things that matter to you.

You want his emotional support.

On the other hand, your friend with benefits loves the exclusivity of him being the only one that you are having sex with, but isn’t where you are emotionally.

He doesn’t want you to have sex with other guys as he is fearful of losing the exclusivity he has to your body.

It boosts his ego knowing that he is the only guy you are having sex with, even though he isn’t your official boyfriend.

He has had the best of both worlds.

The exclusivity of being the only guy you are sleeping with without the responsibility of an official boyfriend.

Since your feelings are involved, it is likely that you will latch onto any hope he gives you of a potential committed relationship.

A guy like this won’t hesitate to make promises of commitment to you that he has no intention of keeping.

Should he sense that you are on the cusp of no longer being a friend with benefits on account of your desire to be his girlfriend, he can easily lie to you to make you think he wants to become your boyfriend in the near future.

Sadly, this tricks you into thinking that you have a future with him, and as a result, you keep on.

The longer you stay with him, giving him exclusive sex, the deeper your feelings for him become.

Meanwhile, he keeps pushing off becoming your boyfriend.

Eventually, you are so deep in your feelings for him that you are incapable of moving on from him.

This can be totally avoided if you keep your present feelings out of it and accept that your friend with benefits has no interest in pursuing a committed relationship with you.

A guy who feels the same way as you do would have jumped at the opportunity to become your boyfriend.

Sometimes, friends with benefits develop feelings for each other but are scared to reveal them fearful that doing so would turn the other off.

In your case, he doesn’t share the same feelings but wants to keep reaping the benefits of having exclusive sex with you.

His ego aside, your friend with benefits is fully aware that if you start having sex with other guys he could completely lose you as a friend with benefits.

Being that you have developed an emotional attachment to him since you started having sex with him, he knows that the same thing can just as easily happen with any new guy you start having sex with.

Again, he is currently getting the best of both worlds.

Exclusive sex without a commitment.

The longer you keep having sex with him, the deeper your feelings for him will be.

You are better off ending your friends with benefits relationship with him before the feelings become too deep.